Thank you for the tips on the books. My mom is in a care facility so I don't have too many problems to handle on my own but I would definitely need the added knowledge/insights if she lived with me. I only see her once a week as she is 50 miles from me. Our visits are not as enjoyable as they were maybe a year or so ago, when she always knew who I was, but she does seem happy and I am able to get some laughs from her most days. When you have someone needing that kind of care and living right with you, you need all of the input from good sources that you can get.