Get Well Wishes for Robin (RobiLee)

[Pam]

LOVE THE PICTURES!

Don't feel bad about calling your parents - that is what they are for and no matter what age you are, you are still their "baby". They will be there for you - as will we

Couldn't have said it better!

Robin when I am facing something coming up in my life that I am dreading I try to look past it. What I mean is that, say, something is going to happen on Monday, I say to myself...."Self, by Tuesday you will be doing thus and so." It is a little game that I play with myself which takes the focus off the future and puts it into the past even though it hasn't happened yet. How's that for confusing? Try to get a glimpse of your future, (after the divorce), and that includes a whole new life for you! Focus on that! Some day you will look back on all of this and there will be no pain, no hurt and no anger because it will all be a distant memory and you will be in such a better place. You WILL get there!

Regarding leaving Tori out, I have a confession to make too. Years ago when my dad was in the hospital my brother and I would ride down weekly to visit him. One day my brother came to pick me up and I forget to let the dogs (two toy poodles) back in. Thank God my next door neighbor noticed them and took them into her home that day because it went up to about 90 and there was no water outside and I was gone for hours! Every time I think of that, and it happened decades ago, I cringe!! We are human. Thankfully Tori is no worse for it.

[Ginger's Mom]

Great post Pam, and I like your little "game." I think I may try that some time when I have a seemingly overwhelming event looming. You may want to give it a try, Robin. More hugs coming your way.