Quote Originally Posted by Donnaj4962
:::I met a great guy the first of December, and everything was going great... until I had my breast cancer scare, and then he was gone. No explanation, nothing. Won't return my calls, won't answer the phone when I call. I know that it was too soon to tell, but I felt like he could have been the man I have been looking for all my life. I was so scared, because it seemed so right. He said the same thing. We tried to go slow with everything, but we both felt so "whole" when we were together. I miss him so much, and with no closure, I just can't get past it all.
A "man" (and I use the term loosely) who would turn tail and run at the first sign of illness is not the one for you. We say things in the first blush of romance that we wouldn't ordinarily say. He is NOT a great guy, he is a coward. Someone who won't take phone calls or return them is someone who's going to look around one day and wonder where HIS support system is. And guess what. He won't have one. I'm sorry that this happened to you but better now than later. Rip the bandaid off; it stings for a little while and then it's over. Now you can heal. Leave this guy in your dust and take care of yourself. You've been through enough. I'm praying that you get your meds all straightened out and that you'll realize just how strong you really are.