I, too have been there. He promised a lot of things afterwards. I know now that I didn't deserve what happened to me, but he convinced me it was all my fault.

I haven't spoken to him in years; nor will I if I have anything to say about it. It's like Animalhouse26 says - no one would ever have believe that he could do such a thing.

Sending good thoughts and prayers your way. If you need to talk, PM me.