i need to get this out

[karlyb]

Abusers seldom stop this behavior on their own. Please go to a safe shelter or get him out of the house. I know it is hard to go to a shelter and ask for help, but your life is on the line. Don't let him hurt you again. I am concerned for you.

[Alysser]

I am so sorry this happened to you. PLEASE listen to everyone and get yourself out of there. You don't deserve this. GET OUT while you still can. Good luck!

[Daisy and Delilah]

OMG!! You have to call the police!! I wasn't aware that you two had gotten back together. If he's arrested in California, you can possibly get home and have enough peace and time to make a permanent move away from him. Please call the authorities before he does it again. You may not be so lucky the next time. What a jerk he is!!!!

[popcornbird]

This post makes me incredibly sad. I do not remember if there have been posts on this situation before or not, but...wow. Marriage is a relationship that is based on LOVE, MERCY...you husband is supposed to be your COMFORT, not your BEATER!!! Seriously. Please don't remain married to a man who is so abusive towards you. If he has hurt you to the point of bruising and injuring you, its time to say goodbye. No one has the right to hurt anyone like that, ESPECIALLY not a husband to his wife. Like I said, Marriage is love, mercy, comfort, and if your marriage is abuse, it is not marriage at all. You'll be better off without someone who beats you like that.

[jackie]

I hope you are ok and have sorted things out.

[*LabLoverKEB*]

OMG, Gayle! You DO NOT deserve to be treated this way. I will be praying for you daily, several times a day. Please check in... we are very concerned for you, and your safety.

[carole]

Oh my gosh i was shocked reading this post, you poor woman, please get some medical attention for yourself as well, i do indeed think he needs to be reported and you need to kick him to the kerb,you DONOT deserve to be treated this way, you are a wonderful human being,and he needs to be made accountable for his actions.

Don't hesitate, get some help,get him arrested and a restraining order against him,Do get him out of your life dear once and for all. HUGS and we are all very concerned about your well being,i hope you are able to stop by and let us know that you are ok, we are all thinking of you.

[cyber-sibes]

Adding my prayers for you. You do not deserve to be beaten, thrown, or belittled. You are not his punching bag. I fully agree with Catty1, too - get yourself to Alanon. It's free, and it will help you in ways you cannot even fathom right now. I hope you consult with a lawyer, a psychologist, & a trusted spiritual guide too, to help you decide what to do next.

[Animalhouse26]

Wow, I am just catching this. I am soo Sorry ure going through this. I have too.. been through this.. It is NOT A good thing! I Left him,and Have not talked to him Since! IT was a BAD Situation.. and NO ONE that knew him.. EVER Would have thought of him doing that! So, I wouldn't take his Word for it. And It sounds like this isn't the first time! If you need anyone to talk to.. Feel Free to PM me. You are in my thoughts!

[robinh]

I, too have been there. He promised a lot of things afterwards. I know now that I didn't deserve what happened to me, but he convinced me it was all my fault.

I haven't spoken to him in years; nor will I if I have anything to say about it. It's like Animalhouse26 says - no one would ever have believe that he could do such a thing.

Sending good thoughts and prayers your way. If you need to talk, PM me.

[loveallfurryfriends]

I just caught this post, I am so sorry that this is happening to you. I just want you to know that there IS better life out there for you. Leave-- he is probably not going to change, you do not have to live like this. No man ever has the right to beat you, drunk or not. Please know that I'm praying for you. I know that there are others here who have been through this, they can point you in the right direction. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.