Quote Originally Posted by RobiLee
If I was sucha a good person than my husband wouldn't be saying bad things about me. My son would be here supporting me..

No, Robin, that's NOT TRUE. What your husband is saying/doing is because of the type of person he is. You thought he was one thing and it turned out he was not. You know in your heart that you do not deserve the type of things he is apparently dishing out. Once you come to accept that you are not the bad guy here, you will feel a relief to be out of a partnership that is destructive. Please don't help him in his attempts to put you down.

Living well is the best revenge and you have the capacity for a good life, but only if you want it. I hope that you can want it as badly for yourself as so many of us here want it for you.

Your son is young and has not had enough of life's experiences to understand your needs. Maybe he has not been able to completely understand and meet his own needs and all this is overwhelming for him.