Get Well Wishes for Robin (RobiLee)

[shais_mom]

I think you should live to SPITE those that bring you down.
HE changed
YOU didn't. YOU did CHANGE b/c of HIM.

if you do succeed in hurting yourself (GOD FORBID)
you are giving him exactly what he wants.
he will play the 'victim' and the 'martyr' for awhile.
everyone will come up to him and say oh A, poor you.
he'll nod - play the grieving ex. go home with the girlfriend.
THEY will get what they want.. they will move into your home and take your dogs. OR she won't want them and they will end up at the pound wondering why their mom left them.
while your TRUE friends and family including Katie and Tori will be heartbroken. Look into their eyes - how can you possibly not want to live?

so LIVE
to SPITE them. Why give him the satisfaction of an easy life?

LIVE ROBIN....
choose to LIVE.

[wolf_Q]

I don't know what to say that will help you, Robin...just know I'm keeping you in my thoughts. {{HUGS}}

[cyber-sibes]

Robin, sometimes life sucks for a while & there isn't much you can do about it, because you can't change other people. Your ex's behavior is crazy-making, believe me, I've been where you are. I do understand how you feel. I don't really know how I made it, except that I chose to hang on one more day, in hopes that things would change. I did that every morning for years. And life has changed, for the better. I pray you can hang on just one more day, enough days in a row until life gets better. It will. Till then, let us love you until you can love yourself.

Sending you (((hugs))) & vibes for inner healing.


Oh yeah, Jack says he wants to meet you , too.

[krazyaboutkatz]

Robin, You continue to remain in my thoughts and prayers. Please take care. (((HUGS)))

[Lilith Cherry]

Still thinking of you Robin and hoping that you feel at least a little better every day. We love you, honey!

[chocolatepuppy]

Oh Robin, I am so shook up reading this. Your almost ex is ONE person! There are so many who know what a beautiful person you are! So many people who need you here. Your son is young, maybe not able to understand why you are acting like 'this'. Maybe can't deal with it.
We all love you and need you here, as do your girls. It will get better, it will take time. Please hang on. I'm keeping you in my prayers. {{{hugs}}}

[Cincy'sMom]

Robin, I wish there were something any of us could say or do to make you realize that you are a wonderful person and you do deserve to live a long, wonderful, happy life. You mean so much to so many. Know that we are all thinking of you and praying for you.

[RobiLee]

Robin, sometimes life sucks for a while & there isn't much you can do about it, because you can't change other people. Your ex's behavior is crazy-making, believe me, I've been where you are. I do understand how you feel. I don't really know how I made it, except that I chose to hang on one more day, in hopes that things would change. I did that every morning for years. And life has changed, for the better. I pray you can hang on just one more day, enough days in a row until life gets better. It will. Till then, let us love you until you can love yourself.

Sending you (((hugs))) & vibes for inner healing.


Oh yeah, Jack says he wants to meet you , too.

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I am doing better today, Pat. Thank you so much for the picture of Jack-a-roo. He is one of my very favs and if I lived closer I would snatch him up in a heartbeat so that he and Tori could spend the day playing. I just want to give him a great big ol hug. would you do that for me please? Hugs to the queen girl herself too. Love ya, Star!

[Randi]

Robin, I'm glad to hear you're feeling better today. It wlll be a bumpy ride, some days you’ll feel OK and some days you’ll feel down - but keep fighting!! I promise you, things WILL change! Get angry instead of depressed - scream and scout and cry if that helps. You’re allowed to be unreasonable for a while.

I like what Stacy said in her post 151, read that again! And take one day at a time - your life WILL get better!

I believe that a lot of us have been in situations where we'd rather die than go on, but somehow, it'll all work out in the end.

Lots of positive thoughts are coming your way!

((((hugs))))

[Scooter's Mom]

You don't know me very well, but I wanted to add my prayers too. I have been in the same spot and it is hard to pull yourself out of it.
I am so glad you're feeling better today.

Crystal

[RobiLee]

I think you should live to SPITE those that bring you down.
HE changed
YOU didn't. YOU did CHANGE b/c of HIM.

if you do succeed in hurting yourself (GOD FORBID)
you are giving him exactly what he wants.
he will play the 'victim' and the 'martyr' for awhile.
everyone will come up to him and say oh A, poor you.
he'll nod - play the grieving ex. go home with the girlfriend.
THEY will get what they want.. they will move into your home and take your dogs. OR she won't want them and they will end up at the pound wondering why their mom left them.
while your TRUE friends and family including Katie and Tori will be heartbroken. Look into their eyes - how can you possibly not want to live?

so LIVE
to SPITE them. Why give him the satisfaction of an easy life?

LIVE ROBIN....
choose to LIVE.

Staci,

This post has really touched me. I am printing it out and putting it on my fridge. Thanks for the daily reminder. Love ya!

[shais_mom]

Staci,

This post has really touched me. I am printing it out and putting it on my fridge. Thanks for the daily reminder. Love ya!

MAJOR LES now.
love ya too!

[robinh]

I don't post often, but I had to let you know I am thinking of you and praying for you every day.

Years ago, my ex-husband did the same thing to me. It took a long time and quite a bit of therapy for me to understand that the only way he could feel better was to make me feel worse. I remember finally understanding that I couldn't do day to day coping - sometimes I had to do minute to minute. I repeated it over and over, "I'm OK right now and I'm working on being OK for the next minute."

At that time, he had separated me from all my friends and I felt so alone. Please know that there are many people here that are praying for you and are willing to talk anytime you need a friend. You are NOT alone. You need only reach out and someone will reach back.

Many hugs go to you and the furkids.

Robin

[Christiansmommy]

Sweet Robin, who by the way, has the best name on earth

I think more people than would let on, have been thru very similar situations to what you are having to go through...and they were doing it alone. You have such an outlet of people here that I REALLY FEEL legitimately care and love you, really!!! My hear aches for you. My prayers go out to you.

Why in the world people have the power and ability to hurt other people is beyond me...it makes me angry to know that you are hurting because someone made some pretty bad choices and you're being affected by them. Well, you are so much better than that, such an important lady!! Look into those beautiful green eyes that you have and know that the face looking back at you is LOVED and prayed for by many many people. I know you might think, yeah right, you are not in my situation, but you will get thru this. One day, you are going to look BACK at this....YOU WILL LOOK BACK AT THIS!

Life can get real dark and thoughts that overwhelm us can haunt us when we want most to not think about them, I know...that's when you can call or email one of us. You have to at times like those....I know in my past, and hard trying times in my life, that I have gone thru...if it were not for my family and friends to talk to, to cry to, I wouldn't have made it thru those times. I think that is why God gave us shoulders ....really....when you can't stand on your own, it's time for you to lean on someone else and rest that weary head on someones shoulders...please know that your life is WAY too precious!!!! You can get through this,I know you can. (((HUGS))) girl.

Here is my shoulder if you need it....

Love,
Robyn

[Daisy and Delilah]

Robin,

Staci's post is right on. It says it all so well. I'm so glad you're putting it on the fridge. Read it over and over.

You're acting as if you're not worth it because of other toxic people in your life. This is where you're wrong.......you are so worth it!!! I hope and pray you stay cheerful and are able to pull yourself out of this. YOU ARE THE BETTER PERSON HERE!!!! - BELIEVE IT!!! There is a better life out there for you. Leave the toxicity behind and stay with people that know what a wonderful lady you are. Break away, you deserve to have a better life!!

I've also been there, done that. I told you about it in PM several months ago. Please PM me if I can do anything. {{{{{GIANT HUGS}}}}}

Love, Terry