Get Well Wishes for Robin (RobiLee)

[Cinder & Smoke]

Phred,

I'm sorry that I haven't called you back.
I'm waiting here wondering if the police are going to come and get me.
I've really messed things up.
I deserve ...

I finally got through again to Robin ... about 11:45 pm ...
She's pretty far down in the dumps, but seemed to come around a bit as we talked.

"Norma" is there with her and will stay till about 1:00 pm on Sunday.
I had a nice chat with Norma >>>
Norma sounds very nice and is concerned about Robin ...
we traded phone numbers with the promise to keep everyone informed.

Back with Robin ... she *perks up* for a moment or two, then starts voicing
depressed thoughts ... gotta keep her focused on Happie Thoughts!

I tried to *sell her* on getting a room-mate for company and to help pay expenses ...
this time she said she'd "think about it" ... can I call that progress?

Hopefully she'll get some restful sleep and wake up with a brighter disposition.

{{{Hugs}}} to Robin!

/s/ Phred

[gini]

I am so relieved that someone is with Robin - Phred there are no words that say thank you properly.

We are discussing a valuable person's life - and we have no control - only our prayers that she can understand how valuable she is....................

[Catty1]

Prayers for Robin that she will get through this rough patch and begin to see a bit of a bigger, brighter picture.

Phred, thank you for the update.

[slick]

Phred, thank you for that information. The fact alone that she is posting is a good sign in my opinion and I'm so glad that she is not alone right now.

Robin, I never told you about this on the phone, but I truly know how you feel. Without going into details here, I know what it's like to want to die. I've been there. I wanted the hurt to end so desperately that my life meant nothing to me. For me that was rock bottom. When I woke the next morning I started making phone calls and after a year of therapy, I finally realized that it wasn't my fault and I learned that I am worth living and loving. That was 18 years ago now and I still have boughts of negativity now and then. It's a long road Robin but well worth it. I pray that you take the same path as me and leave behind the road you currently follow. Help is out there. All you need to do is ask. Life can be so much better than it is now!!!! You have to trust me on this one.

We love you Robin. Our world just wouldn't be the same without you in it. Please stay.

[shais_mom]

I think you should live to SPITE those that bring you down.
HE changed
YOU didn't. YOU did CHANGE b/c of HIM.

if you do succeed in hurting yourself (GOD FORBID)
you are giving him exactly what he wants.
he will play the 'victim' and the 'martyr' for awhile.
everyone will come up to him and say oh A, poor you.
he'll nod - play the grieving ex. go home with the girlfriend.
THEY will get what they want.. they will move into your home and take your dogs. OR she won't want them and they will end up at the pound wondering why their mom left them.
while your TRUE friends and family including Katie and Tori will be heartbroken. Look into their eyes - how can you possibly not want to live?

so LIVE
to SPITE them. Why give him the satisfaction of an easy life?

LIVE ROBIN....
choose to LIVE.

[wolf_Q]

I don't know what to say that will help you, Robin...just know I'm keeping you in my thoughts. {{HUGS}}

[cyber-sibes]

Robin, sometimes life sucks for a while & there isn't much you can do about it, because you can't change other people. Your ex's behavior is crazy-making, believe me, I've been where you are. I do understand how you feel. I don't really know how I made it, except that I chose to hang on one more day, in hopes that things would change. I did that every morning for years. And life has changed, for the better. I pray you can hang on just one more day, enough days in a row until life gets better. It will. Till then, let us love you until you can love yourself.

Sending you (((hugs))) & vibes for inner healing.


Oh yeah, Jack says he wants to meet you , too.

[krazyaboutkatz]

Robin, You continue to remain in my thoughts and prayers. Please take care. (((HUGS)))

[RobiLee]

Robin, sometimes life sucks for a while & there isn't much you can do about it, because you can't change other people. Your ex's behavior is crazy-making, believe me, I've been where you are. I do understand how you feel. I don't really know how I made it, except that I chose to hang on one more day, in hopes that things would change. I did that every morning for years. And life has changed, for the better. I pray you can hang on just one more day, enough days in a row until life gets better. It will. Till then, let us love you until you can love yourself.

Sending you (((hugs))) & vibes for inner healing.


Oh yeah, Jack says he wants to meet you , too.

re


I am doing better today, Pat. Thank you so much for the picture of Jack-a-roo. He is one of my very favs and if I lived closer I would snatch him up in a heartbeat so that he and Tori could spend the day playing. I just want to give him a great big ol hug. would you do that for me please? Hugs to the queen girl herself too. Love ya, Star!

[RobiLee]

I think you should live to SPITE those that bring you down.
HE changed
YOU didn't. YOU did CHANGE b/c of HIM.

if you do succeed in hurting yourself (GOD FORBID)
you are giving him exactly what he wants.
he will play the 'victim' and the 'martyr' for awhile.
everyone will come up to him and say oh A, poor you.
he'll nod - play the grieving ex. go home with the girlfriend.
THEY will get what they want.. they will move into your home and take your dogs. OR she won't want them and they will end up at the pound wondering why their mom left them.
while your TRUE friends and family including Katie and Tori will be heartbroken. Look into their eyes - how can you possibly not want to live?

so LIVE
to SPITE them. Why give him the satisfaction of an easy life?

LIVE ROBIN....
choose to LIVE.

Staci,

This post has really touched me. I am printing it out and putting it on my fridge. Thanks for the daily reminder. Love ya!

[shais_mom]

Staci,

This post has really touched me. I am printing it out and putting it on my fridge. Thanks for the daily reminder. Love ya!

MAJOR LES now.
love ya too!

[robinh]

I don't post often, but I had to let you know I am thinking of you and praying for you every day.

Years ago, my ex-husband did the same thing to me. It took a long time and quite a bit of therapy for me to understand that the only way he could feel better was to make me feel worse. I remember finally understanding that I couldn't do day to day coping - sometimes I had to do minute to minute. I repeated it over and over, "I'm OK right now and I'm working on being OK for the next minute."

At that time, he had separated me from all my friends and I felt so alone. Please know that there are many people here that are praying for you and are willing to talk anytime you need a friend. You are NOT alone. You need only reach out and someone will reach back.

Many hugs go to you and the furkids.

Robin