Kimmy,

Hi. I've forgotten how old Kia is? But I can tell you about
two sites I know of that I use as a starting off point to gather
helpful info on pup & dog behavior. Ist one is

http://www.perfectpaws.com

or I've used this one also

http://www.leerburg.com under training articles.

I had the same problem with Buddy, but only on outside
walks, etc. Inside , he could always be distracted with a treat.
Know what you mean by getting so embarressed by this
behavior while out on walks. Hopefully, starting earlier with
Moki, maybe it'll be different this time. Good luck on this.