Robin, I am so sorry he hurt you. ((((hugs)))) going out to you. Glad you are home though. Feel better!![]()
Robin, I am so sorry he hurt you. ((((hugs)))) going out to you. Glad you are home though. Feel better!![]()
Robin...if nothing else, I hope that what your ex has done has helped you realize that he is total poison for you!
Please keep getting outpatient help - to recover from a toxic marriage takes time, and doesn't happen overnight!
HUGS
"Do or do not. There is no try." -- Yoda
Originally Posted by Catty1
I think I do finally realize this. He is a very bad and mean person. He has no morals and doesn't care about anyone but himself. After being with him since I was 16 years old. I think that makes it 27 years all together I never ever thought I would say something like that about him. He is cruel and uncaring and just downright mean.
I sitll am having a hard time and it is hard to accept that this is who he is now. but I finally do know that I have to accept it.
Again, I continue to cry and I so wish that would stop. Both of my corneas are infected and the doc thinks that all the crying with my contacts in might have led to that. So now I can't even wear my contacts and my glasses are so old...lol. Hopefully the corneas will clear up soon. I just feel like I'm beat up all over.
Thanks again Everyone!
Lots of thoughts and prayers coming your way, Robin. You certainly don't deserve everything he has put ou through, but it will get better and we are all here for you!
Robin - if you can, treat yourself to some new snazzy glasses! HUGS to you again.
When you were in hosp, did they make arrangements for counselling or follow-up care?
(Sounds like you finally got ANGRY...and there is a common thought about depression being anger turned inside...)
"Do or do not. There is no try." -- Yoda
Robin, you'll remain in my thoughts and prayers. Things will get better. Please take care. (((HUGS)))
Robin-I am terribly sorry your going through this.keep in mind that you DO need a restraining order and still need to watch yourself even after.you should try to keep yourself around at least 1 other person for at least a year.i know it sounds extreem...but these kind of men are very dangerous.I too was in a marriage a long time back with a very scary man.
i also have been through the mill with other very scary men.
no more though (thank God) but i have done my share on reading about these type guys and feel i know what to look for when just talking with a male for the first time.
by the way...most men are very very nice...it's those few that you need to look out for.
And of course it goes the other way around too with scary woman.(not to exclude the other sex)
(i don't want to get in trouble here..lol)
Anyway...take the advice on never being alone as much as possible...please...it's very important.
Thank You Kim for this wonderful siggy
"When the power of love overcomes the love of power ,the world will know peace" jimi hendrix
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