If I figured it out right, you should owe, at the most, $100. I don't know why they won't tell you who donated because they sure ask our first and last names. My donation was mentioned in your one post. Not long now! I do hope it goes peacefully and you can have some sort of normal relationship with your parents. Maybe they'll see the light, so to speak. Looking forward to seeing pics of you and your new place. I know your health will improve when you get out of that toxic atmosphere. And kitty purrs to help you along, too