All you can do is be there for him, and chat with him online. How far is Columbus from Cleveland, can you go there for a visit give him moral support? If not, just be there online or by phone for him, and when he's ready to talk, he will. My hubby isn't the type to open up either, and when his mom got sick, I just was there for him, and listened when he did try and open up. My prayers are with you.