Quick advice..

**Pawsitive Thinking** · 01-25-2008, 06:11 AM

Ignore her - in fact pretend she isn't even there. What you can't see or hear won't hurt you

**Medusa** · 01-25-2008, 07:26 AM

If you weren't really friends w/her anyhow, as you say, then completely and totally ignore her. That drives people like her NUTS! If you have that win/lose mentality, you automatically lose. Treat her as though she does not exist because, in your eyes, she doesn't. What you give your attention to, grows. What you ignore, dies from lack of attention. This situation will die out if you dare to let it.

**sumbirdy** · 01-25-2008, 03:22 PM

Originally Posted by Medusa

If you weren't really friends w/her anyhow, as you say, then completely and totally ignore her. That drives people like her NUTS! If you have that win/lose mentality, you automatically lose. Treat her as though she does not exist because, in your eyes, she doesn't. What you give your attention to, grows. What you ignore, dies from lack of attention. This situation will die out if you dare to let it.

Agreed.

**moosmom** · 01-25-2008, 04:22 PM

BC Mom,

You're right, if you didn't do anything wrong, you have no reason to apologize. I say ignore her. You know who your friends are. They'll stick by you. I certainly wouldn't apologize for something I didn't do.

**Chilli** · 01-25-2008, 04:59 PM

Wow, this girl seems very immature. Definitely don't fuel her behavior by letting he know it gets under you skin(even in the slightest). I haven't been bullied, so I am unable to speak out of experience, but I suppose a good way to go about this is to do as others have suggested. If anything, don't get mad at her. Fighting fire with fire is a bit redundant. When she tries to get at you, just smile.

Good luck.