A cat will take time to settle and warm up to you. So you can't make a decision within the first day home and say "oh, this one isn't snuggly!" That may take 3 days to a week depending on the cat.
Unlike a dog who, show her a treat and give a tummy rub and wham, she is mush in your hands, lol.
Would you conside volunteering with a cat rescue group and doing some fostering? Then you can get to know the personality over time. Find one you like, adopt it, and then suggest that they take you off the foster list. They may need a week or so to place any foster cat you had at that time.
Some shelters also use foster homes, that would be easier to return the cat if it is too stand offish after a week.
Just some thoughts.
Basic Needs:
Here is what I think a new cat owner MUST have:
food and water bowls
litter box, scoop and litter
a few toys == a toy mouse, a ball with a bell in it
A SCRATCHING POST
All cats scratch, it is natural for them, it cleans and sharpens their claws, sheds off the older parts of the nail. And they have glands which leave their "mark" on what they scratch.
It IS possible to have a cat only scratch on the cat things (scratching post, perch, tree, etc.) and NOT on your furniture. It may take a week of training, but it can be done.
When you see "kitty starter kits" in stores, they almost NEVER have a scratching post! This gives many new cat owners a bad start.






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