I live in an apartment with my two large (over 50 pounds) lab mix's Nova and Konnor, here are my thoughts:

I would look at the shelter and see if there are any small guys there that you could adopt. If you don't go that route you could always look into breed rescues, that way you are still saving a life. Remember that your neighbor is just on the other side of the wall so a yippy dog won't work in an apartment (I find Poms to be very vocal). My two do great in an apartment, but it's very hard to keep it that way. My biggest thing is the protection they offer me. I feel very protected by their size, I know if anyone tried to come in, there bark alone would scare them away.

If it were me I would go for a dog 1 year or older, that is good with other dogs. That way you get a dog that isn't going to chew everything up, potty on the carpets and need a ton of training. I find it so much easier to train a 1 year old then a 4 month old puppy. Also, a tip from an apartment dwelling doggie mom - it's hard to exercise Nova because she isn't good with other dog, but with Konnor I just take him to the dog park and he runs and runs and runs. Getting a dog that is good with other dogs will make your life so much easier. You can take him to boarding facilities that offer doggie day camps (all day play) or you can take him to the dog park.

Other things you will want to keep in mind, you’re going to be paying rent plus utilities, food etc. etc. How much extra money will you have for grooming, how much extra time for exercise, etc. I know working full time for me leaves very little time for my dogs. I often times have to cancel my plans or not go out with friends because I have to walk the dogs and let them stretch there legs. My days off are spent at the dog park with Konnor or walking Nova. It's a lot harder then living with other people that can help with the daily care of dogs. Also, not having a back yard can make life pretty difficult. I am out walking sometimes at 5 in the morning or 11 at night. Just make sure you think it through, some Poms need groomed every 2 months, some corgi's need a lot of exercise, some Chi's need let out every few hours or so. I know you'll be a great mom to whatever doggie you pick.

Good luck! I can't wait to meet your new addition!!

Ashley