Quote Originally Posted by tikeyas_mom
He goes up to Daisy, and talks to her in baby talk; asking "whats wrong pretty puppy girl? Why are you so scared".. then he snuggles with her...
Is he doing this while she is frightened and hiding? If so this could be a big part of the problem. He's "praising" her and confirming that she's right to be scared. Fear aggression is a very serious thing and I do not think she should be put in a situation where she feels trapped or cornered with the toddlers/babies coming at her. I would highly advise you seek the help of a behaviorist to work with everyone and Daisy. Meanwhile I'd let her be in a safe, separated area when there are young children around instead of making her be in the room with them and putting her in a 'fight or flight' situation.