Desperate Help Needed - Noah

[moosmom]

Kelly,

You've got my reference if you need it. I am so very happy you're finally going to have a life of your own. I also believe it'll help you healthy wise. I know mine have helped me.

Let me know if you need anything.

((((((HUGS)))))

Donna and kits

[Taz_Zoee]

While it's great that you are getting out of the "difficult" situation with living in your parents house, I'm just sorry you do not have the support from your mother that you should have. I hope someday you will get that from her. I do not know what I would do without my mom, even though I do not talk to her everyday.
Do you think that not living there your relationship with her will be any different? For your sake, I hope so. Yeah, they will be upset and angry about you moving, but they will just have to get over it. You are an adult and can (and will) make your own decisions. Hopefully someday they will realize that.
I am so happy for you that you will soon be reunited with your furkids.

[Russian Blue]

Wow, what a difficult situation! I haven't had much time for the forums (and rarely come down to General)so forgive me for only seeing this now!

I think Karen's idea is a good one. Get the parents out while you move - way easier! And if things are that heated, Johanna's suggestion of a cop wouldn't be bad either. At least it would keep it civil while they are there.

I'd also leave a letter explaining everything...exactly as how you see it. A letter is often better, since you have time to word it correctly, instead of in the heat of a face to face discussion.

We went through something a tad similar.....Rob's mother. She accused him of everything and anything. She told him to pick sides (parents are divorced) and said Rob was doing things behind her back (which he wasn't). As you can imagine, Christmas was wonderful.

Rob decided 4 years into our relationship that it wasn't worth maintaining a relationship with his mother because of all the threats and bitterness. We haven't had any contact with her in 8 years and it is so much better. Sometimes it's better to choose who you have in your life, rather than just accepting a negative relationship that hurts your own health/well being.

I wish you the best Kelly - for your health and a new beginning.

[Craftlady]

IF they hold power of attorney, you need the following ...
Revocation of Power of Attorney - allows you to revoke a power of attorney document. Go to your lawyer and get that taken care of before you move.

[Cincy'sMom]

Congratulations Kelly! I'm so glad to see everything coming together for you! All paws and fingers crossed things go smoothly!!!

[phesina]

Fantastic news! Well done, Kelly, and best wishes with the big move!

Pat

[carole]

Aww Kelly i am just as excited for you too, this is indeed the break you need dearest Kelly,all the best sweetie, for a smooth shift and a great life ahead of you.