I think my being gone helps the situation! She gets lonesome and wants that attention while I am gone and she will do anything to get that attention when I get back. It seems to be a great motivator because I am not around messing with her all the time, which can be to much for a girl that is not use to attention all day long. I am such a hands on Mom, I have to be touching/loving one of them all the time. Can't pass one without petting/kissing or something.