People open their hearts, homes and checkbooks to help someone that ACTED like they gave a damm and as soon as it was off their conscious dropped off the face of the earth and left all kinds of havoc behind
I have to say I agree with this from what I have read so far

I also believe that Julie loves these cats very much
you are far more charitable than I am

However, as neither of my comments are constructive I will just shut up now but wish you and Ally all the best for the future