Vent??

[Catty1]

Just a suggestion - that both you and your mom check out the first three posts in this thread: http://petoftheday.com/talk/showthread.php?t=137249

The cook and boss may be sick and toxic people - and the longer you and your mom stay there, the sicker you will get too. It's a form of enabling...

What is your mental health worth?

Sit down and make a plan B. Maybe you could move in with your mom for a while to ease rent expenses.

RUN, don't walk, out of there!

Then, if it ever DOES sell, you can see about going back - unless you are totally happy at the new place!

[slleipnir]

I keep telling myself this. I have no idea why I stay there. Each time I say "next time there is a problem I'm gone for sure" *sigh* I'll wait until after xmas and if no sign of change I guess I should start looking for a new job.

Manager tells me that if I go see higher up boss, all he will do is relay it back to her to solve. I don't think she is really a manager, she is more like a babysitter.

Thanks for the advise.

Kitten: normally I agree, and I would NEVER talk to the customers about problems going on. I can only make so many excuses up for him. I have had people get really pissed off at ME for something he did. and I just have to say "sorry about that" and continue to look bad. (this has happened) As I said this happens a lot. Nothing was being done.

[Taz_Zoee]

I think the manager is telling you that her boss would pass it back to her to solve because she doesn't want you to go to him. I find it hard to believe that if you went to her boss to complain about HER that he would send it back to her. I mean, go to him tell him the entire story about the cook and that you've tried to work it out with the manager and nothing has been solved.
As I said in your other thread..........document EVERYTHING!!

Good luck. I hope either things get better or you get out of there.