It is weird that he forgot his daughter's age, but not having a picture of her isn't that big of a deal to me; my mom doesn't carry pics. of us around with her all the time. A lot of people probably don't have one on them ALL the time of their kids.

I don't know what to tell you, since I'm so protective over my animals I would probably be a little uneasy about letting that family have the cats. I think the home-check sounded like a good idea though.