Sorry about your Memaw, Kay. It sounds scary, but lucklly the docs seem to have it under control.

Kay, trust me, there are very few people who have the ability to pay for nursing homes on their own. I sought out an ElderCare lawyer, and believe me, it was a life saver. Of course there's the lawyer's fee but they do all the paperwork etc. I know there's a stigma with nursing homes and nobody wants anyone to be in one, but there may come a time when it's necessary, for your Memaw's health too, Good Luck and Hugs to all.