My very deepest sympathy to you and your family. If she's not eating or getting her meds in and she's having accidents, I think she's saying the time has come and she's ready. You've made the right decision, though we all know how hard it is to do.

Safe home to Iris on her journey to the Bridge, the one we will all make sooner or later. The love you and she share lives on, and One Fine Day you and she will be together again for always.

{{{{{HUGS}}}}} to you and soft caresses to your beloved Iris.

Pat