Not to be a downer but I don't have much family left, lost my Mother, Father and brother and now its down to my sister who sort of stresses me out on the holidays.

I get an invitation written like an invitation to a business meeting, be there at 1, socializing from 1-3, eating at 3, bring enough mashed potatoes to feed 23. Its just sort of cold but I do need to let my girls enjoy the holiday, I will make sure I drink wine