Aw, Kim, I'm so very sorry. I guess we can't ask for more than to go quickly, but it doesn't ease the pain. My dad died the day before Thanksgiving in 2002. We had our turkey etc, as we thought dad would like it that way. His favorite saying was "life goes on and you'll survive" I always try to remember that, although sometimes I think it's impossible. Please hug your mom for me too. Again, I'm so sorry.