Hi Ann

Definitely beg or borrow from your boyfriend (that's what friends are for ) and see the vet re the eye infection. Might be an eye problem, or a respiratory infection, poor little thing.

We don't have the spray over here so I can't comment. But flea collars and shampoos usually only kill fleas that are on the cat. You may also need a treatment that kills baby fleas if any adults have escaped into the carpets or floorboards and start breeding. (Fleas can live up to two years in floors without food - erk.)

He/she might simply be starving and dehydrated and hasn't consumed enough excess to need the toilet yet. Again, the vet will have a better idea.

Hopefully your parents will relax a bit once the kitten is looking better. Fingers crossed. Good luck.