For those who had babies

[sirrahbed]

Renae I wish I could hug and reassure you in person. I hope I have something to say that will comfort you a bit ...I agree with Cookiebaker's statements about birth being natural and will happen when your body is ready. Childbearing is is not a medical event - it is physical, natural and can be downright enjoyable. It is my understanding that medical management of labor is the norm now and even has initials and that is ok... All that may sound nuts to you and that is normal too. This is your body, your particular unique birth, your baby and your experience.

Labor will happen at just the right time for you.

Consciously relaxing does ease contractions and help for your body to respond - deep slow breathing can take you almost up to actually pushing the baby out. I chose to breath slowly and deeply and visualize what was happening. I felt contractions to be like waves of the ocean with a probable/possible storm but not a particularly bad one. A warm and still hubby nearby or actually seated behind you is a wonderful tranquilizer

Walking slowly can be very relaxing to some women

There are no prizes for stoicism or bragging rights if you choose to have medication to help the event. I bet even pioneer women had some herb, bark or whatever to chew on

These may be the last moments, days or weeks of marveling at the movement while it is still inside you - see if you can enjoy some of these moments of quiet

You can and will do this dear girl - then will come here to tell us about it

[Cookiebaker]

Renae I wish I could hug and reassure you in person. I hope I have something to say that will comfort you a bit ...I agree with Cookiebaker's statements about birth being natural and will happen when your body is ready. Childbearing is is not a medical event - it is physical, natural and can be downright enjoyable. It is my understanding that medical management of labor is the norm now and even has initials and that is ok... All that may sound nuts to you and that is normal too. This is your body, your particular unique birth, your baby and your experience.

Labor will happen at just the right time for you.

Consciously relaxing does ease contractions and help for your body to respond - deep slow breathing can take you almost up to actually pushing the baby out. I chose to breath slowly and deeply and visualize what was happening. I felt contractions to be like waves of the ocean with a probable/possible storm but not a particularly bad one. A warm and still hubby nearby or actually seated behind you is a wonderful tranquilizer

Walking slowly can be very relaxing to some women

There are no prizes for stoicism or bragging rights if you choose to have medication to help the event. I bet even pioneer women had some herb, bark or whatever to chew on

These may be the last moments, days or weeks of marveling at the movement while it is still inside you - see if you can enjoy some of these moments of quiet

You can and will do this dear girl - then will come here to tell us about it

Debbie, how comforting!!!!! I have tears in my eyes after reading your post. Will you come be with me at my next birth(if there ever is another one)????

[BitsyNaceyDog]

I'm with Anna and Debbie, your body and your baby are in control and know what to do.

As for being dilated, my sister-in-law was 2 cm dilated for nearly a month before she went into labor. It's completely normal for you to be a dilated a cm or two at this stage.

Needles and I don't agree, so it was a huge relief when I was tested and negative for Group B strep. Like Anna said you get a shot of antibiotics every 4 hours from the time you go into labor until your baby is born.

Remember that you are ONLY 37 weeks. While you could go any time your baby isn't truly over due until 42 weeks.

[kimlovescats]

Sweetie, there is a reason that "full term" is 40 weeks! Your little girl isn't ready to make her entrance just yet! Braxton Hicks contractions can happen weeks prior to delivery! You will be just fine and that precious little girl will be here before you know it!

Hugs,
Kim