Prayers for hubby - PLEASE!!

[Catty1]

I really hope the 'kids' wake up...

Because they are living at home, find out if there is a legal way for you and hubby to handle their money and 'dole' it out...

Just the mention of that might smarten them up.

Otherwise, have a look at family counselling...if your hubby is getting this sick, then I'd say it's an emergency. I hope his doc might recommend it - or even see the kids and point things out to them. If he can scare your hubby into changing, maybe he can have an effect on them too.

I hope you can get control of the finances....PRAYERS for all of you!


{{{{{hugs}}}}}

[Pawsitive Thinking]

the other is 19 with a baby

She went out anyway, and still wasn't home at 1:00

is this the same "child"

[catnapper]

is this the same "child"

Yup.... you have no idea the stuff she's been pulling lately. A week or so ago, she and I came home at the same time. She went to greet Cam, he ran right past her to me. He wanted nothing to do with her. If I were him, I wouldn't want anything to do with her either... hey wait... I already want nothing to do with her at the moment! Spooky irony!

Well, I have to go pick hubby up. I'm nervous and feeling quite faint myself right now. Please wish us luck. I will update you after we're back, but not til late tonight since I'll drop him back off home and head to work myself.

[mina'smomma]

Oh Kim keep us updated hun. You and hubby are definately in my prayers right now. Cadience and I will keep our fingers crossed that everything is ok. I would definately have a talk with the kids no ifs and or buts from hubby. He needs to start caring for himself now.

[Freedom]

Prayers for you and hubby.

[Daisy and Delilah]

Best wishes for hubby, and you, Kim. I hope all is well and he can get that BP down quickly and keep it down. Thoughts and prayers going out right away.

[krazyaboutkatz]

Kim, I'm so sorry to hear this. Lots of prayers and positive thoughts are being sent his way. I hope that you'll both start feeling better soon.

As for the young adults, they need to live by your rules or they need to move out. You can't let them control you. I hope you can work something out.

[moosmom]

Kim,

You and Grant will be in my thoughts and prayers. You have been through so much these past couple of years.

This is what I would do:

As far as the kids are concerned, you need to round them up and tell them the way it's GONNA BE or get out!! Grant's health is much too important. Ashley needs to get Cam into day care to socialize with kids his own age.

As far as your son is concerned, tell him he has exacty 60 days to find a place of his own or he'll have to start paying rent, then stick to it.

Your kids are working you over girl. Why go anywhere when you can stay put and have a roof over your head, food in your belly and a little spending money for free???

This whole situation has gotten way out of hand. You need to be straight with them and stick to your guns.

Please keep us posted.

[mina'smomma]

Kim,

You and Grant will be in my thoughts and prayers. You have been through so much these past couple of years.

This is what I would do:

As far as the kids are concerned, you need to round them up and tell them the way it's GONNA BE or get out!! Grant's health is much too important. Ashley needs to get Cam into day care to socialize with kids his own age.

As far as your son is concerned, tell him he has exacty 60 days to find a place of his own or he'll have to start paying rent, then stick to it.

Your kids are working you over girl. Why go anywhere when you can stay put and have a roof over your head, food in your belly and a little spending money for free???

This whole situation has gotten way out of hand. You need to be straight with them and stick to your guns.

Please keep us posted.

I completely agree with Donna. Start opening that can of Whoop Butt on those kids.

[sandragonfly]

This whole situation has gotten way out of hand. You need to be straight with them and stick to your guns.

totally am with that, especially who's responsible for the house?? just do it.

I don't believe you would say things about the kids, complain about and pointing them out in almost every thread, it's just not right. or obviously, is helpful. they are GROWING and telling them they're killing their father or making next embarrassing thread wouldn't really help - no wonder they can behave like this.

DO something and they all need to take care of themselves - you're not some hero of lives, take care of yourself - action speaks louder than words and hope your hubby will realize, do better for his needs and settle in a while soon! good luck.