I will reply more in depth a little later when Ihave time but just wanted to remind you that any time you feed her something else or she doesn't empty you out completely you run the risk of decreasing your supply. This early on it is very important to keep up with the demand so that your body keeps up the supply I know that you don't want to pump to increase your supply but if she is grouching at night because she is hungry the best thing to do is let her eat to increase your supply. When she doses off while eating in the evening you just need to wake her up. One way that I was shown to wake up the reluctant nurser was to take one finger and tap the underside of her jaw firmly but gently. It should wake her enought o eat some more. Gotta go, write more later!