Jim had a psychic reading.

[Medusa]

It was fun, but it certainly did not help solve any problems.

I beg to differ. It verified what you already know and that should help you w/your decision to either rehome him or live w/his spraying. That alone should give you some peace of mind. It'll be interesting to see what Nancy says about another cat.

[jenluckenbach]

I beg to differ. It verified what you already know and that should help you w/your decision to either rehome him or live w/his spraying. That alone should give you some peace of mind. It'll

Not to be purposely argumentative, but all I have now are the exact same choices I had earlier and $30 dollars ago.

I am very anxious for the next reading.

[Catty1]

Jen - is it possible that a slightly sterner tone is needed with Jim?

I don't mean anything bad...I just recall a time when I was a teen and one of our dear cats had died. A little while later, we got a youngish kitten(we always had two cats, and kept matching up pairs through the years!). Our older Siamese was just P*****. He didn't try to hurt the newcomer or anything, and we gave him as much comfort as possible.

One day, when it was getting a bit past the point where previous cats had adjusted, my dad picked up Moose (the siamese), and Moose HISSED at him!

Dad wagged a finger at him and said sternly, "That's enough!" and a couple of other words (not bad words, I just can't recall them).

I recall this finally working - we had spent all kinds of time being understanding, and at a certain point, we had to tell Moose that the tantrums were over, mister.

Just a thought.