angelbow, you need legal advice. You can't afford to pay for it. That's why you need to call a service that will help you.

Either check the Yellow Pages, or Google "Womens services in _________ PA"

You could even Google "family law in PA"

There are a couple of lawyers on PT, but I haven't seen them around much.

It's good you are asking here, but also use other means to find an answer.