"Friends"....

[sandragonfly]

ditto what dukedogsmom thought - I wouldn't accept that either. like she said, I've been treated badly enough by others. I mean if friends care enough for you to come with too, you would have AT LEAST been known. not by a mother.

returning her invitation is a good idea, they may want a gift from you but not you out of gifted if you know what I mean. unless you girls worked something out - I'm sorry they did this to you.

[KittyGurl]

returning her invitation is a good idea, they may want a gift from you but not you out of gifted if you know what I mean. unless you girls worked something out - I'm sorry they did this to you.

I agree. They are probably using you to get a present. Don't go to the party. If you do, they'll just ditch you afterwards. You are not over reacting. Everyone would get mad to.

[pitc9]

I've learned over the years to choose wisely who I call a friend. I used to call everyone a friend. No more!

IMO, those people are not your friends. If they were, they would have called you to let you know they were going and would have offered you a ride.

I've learned lessons the hard way and most recently I've lost 2 friends that I've been friends with since we were 7 years old. (I'm 32 now)
It hurts to loose friends, but you can't let your "friends" walk all over you and "crap" all over you.

The older you get... the less TRUE friends you have. But those few are the ones that will be your friends forever!

[sandragonfly]

quoted by pitc9
But those few are the ones that will be your friends forever!

..through thin and thick too!

you didn't had a ride! oh big deal. don't forget you have me. and a few of us.

[BC_MoM]

Well, three of the friends apologized, and I accepted.

Turns out the one I'm not shocked would do something like this told the rest that my sister and I didn't want to go, which is complete doodoo.

But the girl who said it messaged me saying that she never considered me a friend and that to stop saying stuff about her being sneaky and such. I haven't bad mouthed her to anyone, except to say that I'm not surprised she did this.

I don't know how the birthday party is going to go because she's invited. I might just still not go.

I really just want to smack this person.
She's so immature.

[slleipnir]

I wouldn't let her ruin your fun. If you want to go to the party, then go. Have fun, and ignore her if you have to. If she tries to say anything to "put you down" just laugh and walk off. I'm sure that will really annoy her that she's not bugging you

[Catty1]

"Always forgive your enemies - nothing annoys them more."

[Alysser]

Just forget about her, Jess. She isn't worth your time if she lies and makes stupid excuses like that. I lost my best friend of 8 years because she changed and became something she obviously isn't. She goes almost everywhere me and my friends go, we just ignore her. It's fun seeing her reaction to us being there.