Genia, congratulations on your efforts and success. These things take courage and caring and you obviously had both.

Wolflady, you might want to write your concerns in a letter where you can really sort out what you want to say and how you want to say it. This may take some time to compose and rewrite. Then depending on which way you think your friend would receive it best, either send the letter or read it to her personally. Caring comes accross as it did with Genia's neighbor and jackiesdaisy's. If the people who care don't get involved, nobody will until it is too late.

Thank you all for being such caring people.