pitc9 - he won't "let" you?

Sweetie...I have 'escaped' from a bad relationship (thank God it wasn't marriage, though it wouldn't have mattered). I had to plan, and even wrote down how he would react (I had it down to a T, including the suicide threats), and what I would say.

It might me one of those "Don't think about it, just do it." IMO, your hubby is very sick, and that makes you sicker. Don't try to take your life and let his sickness win!

Just suggestions:

1. Find a safe place to board Buddy and Sierra. (vet, or is there a PTr near you?)

2. Find a safe place for you - drop Buddy and Sierra off and get yourself to a women's shelter. Don't worry about hubby - the shelters have dealt with all kinds, and they are not allowed to tell anyone who is staying there. Try to call first, if you can.

For me, it was like planning an escape...and it IS.

Get out, please! ETA: Sent you a PM.

Major PT prayers going your way.