I was in the room when my nephew was born, I was only 19 and was terrified when my sister asked me to be her backup coach, her husband at the time was a you know what....anyway when I saw Timothy being born it was the most amazing and wonderful thing in the world, it was just my sister, me, the nurse and the dr, neither one of us would trade it for the world. I don't get everyone being in there at time of delivery, I would never have wanted that. For me I would have wanted just my husband, that is a very private and personal time for us.