Hello, Note for Everyone ..

[Alysser]

Changed my views on this again.

Gina, I wish you alot of luck and hope one day you find peace in your life instead of going through all this turmoil. Most here REALLY do worry about you, and I just hope for the best.

[shais_mom]

Husky Mom, I understand what you are saying, but I guess we don't share
the same idea about what constitutes a friendship. To me, a real friendship
is only possible when there is trust & respect between people.

well said!

[BC_MoM]

Is there actually need for the sarcasm and witty comments in here?

Moosmom: Your Mom obviously taught you the wrong lesson. The whole saying means say NOTHING. Keep your trap shut and don't say a word. No need to make a single punctuation mark in here if it's going to be with that kind of attitude. How old are you?

Honestly, no one needs to reply at all if you're going to be rude or a smarty.

Back on topic.... I'm sorry life still isn't straightened out, Gina. My prayers are with you!

[Catsnclay]

Moosmom: Your Mom obviously taught you the wrong lesson. The whole saying means say NOTHING. Keep your trap shut and don't say a word. No need to make a single punctuation mark in here if it's going to be with that kind of attitude. How old are you?

Um......I am not trying to be scarscastic here, but Moosmom WAS taught correctly, and she DIDN'T say a word........just like many of us here.

Quite frankly I was taught the same lesson, and even though we ALL want to say something, we all know better.

And FYI, she is old enough to know.

[shais_mom]

I am disgusted with PT right now.Is there actually need for the sarcasm and witty comments in here?

Moosmom: Your Mom obviously taught you the wrong lesson. The whole saying means say NOTHING. Keep your trap shut and don't say a word. No need to make a single punctuation mark in here if it's going to be with that kind of attitude. How old are you?

Honestly, no one needs to reply at all if you're going to be rude or a smarty.

Back on topic.... I'm sorry life still isn't straightened out, Gina. My prayers are with you!

ya know - its the only way some of us have to deal with this craziness. I'm glad you can be her friend.

[shais_mom]

I am disgusted with PT right now.Is there actually need for the sarcasm and witty comments in here?

Moosmom: Your Mom obviously taught you the wrong lesson. The whole saying means say NOTHING. Keep your trap shut and don't say a word. No need to make a single punctuation mark in here if it's going to be with that kind of attitude. How old are you?

Honestly, no one needs to reply at all if you're going to be rude or a smarty.

Back on topic.... I'm sorry life still isn't straightened out, Gina. My prayers are with you!

ya know - its the only way some of us have to deal with this craziness. I'm glad you can be her friend.
and while I wish Gina the good thoughts, my efforts are going to go where needed. http://PetoftheDay.com/talk/showthre...5&goto=newpost

and honestly BC-MOM - for all intents and purposes what you are doing is the exact same thing - you just have different targets.

[dukedogsmom]

Regardless of how her life has been, she's been nothing but nice to me. I wish her the best. She can show great compassion and kindness. And honestly, all these smarmy comments shouldn't have even been made. If you see who the thread is by and you don't care for them, then don't even read it. That's what I do. Makes life much easier.

[jennielynn1970]

BRB.. need more popcorn for the drama.

[sandragonfly]

it wouldn't let me post the lengthy one.. I guess it wasn't meant to be.

I'm just at the very tip of the rope and I feel like letting it go this time.

[Karen]

Tie a knot, don't let go!

[Karen]

(it gave her an error when she tried to post it, her Sidekick doesn't like when she tries to edit a post sometimes.)

okay.. where to start..

phred, when I left the house and asked for the support - I asked for PMs
and never thought it'd rocket up from 107 to 249 in a week, (including
my responses). the last three-four days when I was unable to respond
because of second surgery, I got a couple or doubles from worriers. I
hate to worry people and hated when a PM comes in where I get
notification saying my inbox is full - often people wouldn't re-send. so
I wanted to use email instead - too overwhelmed right now. like I said,
for now. and as for not replying to PMs, are for THOSE who violated my
respect but I believe I have responded to most.

for the confusers - I guess then it wasn't meant for you to understand..
if it's the complication you see, well, that's how my life has been. I
said all the best I could say and I can try again to make a few things
clear - where I stand now, physically, emotionally, & mentally, and
along with this biggest barrier; half of language I totally lack
of, I don't say things at the best - frustrates and tears me more than
anything as you can see my posts decline, unsure what to say and ramble
than often now I think.

there's one thing I see can be/is misunderstood -

nothing about me should be a secret: here, I got a couple "ok, I
won't tell gina that you told me this, she'll never know.. just between
us."
and, violating my privacy - stuff I share with others off this
site I didn't post publicly were shared without my permission after I
got back.

okay now? that's another thing, betrayal hurts. by this site. if they
wanted to know, why can't they PM or ask me? having others
answering for me doesn't always means they get the accurate information
and then they complain they don't get "whole" of MY situation(s). I'm
always here for answers if asked nicely, gently or privately.
if they wanted an update on my knee, make a new thread and I'll post in
there.

kfamr, I immensely have, it is why I keep coming back and again, I never
can thank enough. sometimes it's hard to appreciate this place as much
as I do before, especially what it has been now but this still is the
best place with the best support I can think of. especially with all of
the animals I have and love where they will not be called "just an
animal".

lizbud, what have I done to you beside the "on-going saga"? it is like I
can't react to every scenario - or how is that disrespectful? why did
you seem to let that change your mind about our friendship... I used to
count you as a friend and valued your support.

huskymom, you said a lot things I needed to say, thank you. everytime I
needed "you guys", I only thought of here then do dread to come here at
some time but people like you, are the ones who kept me going. I'm just
at very tip of my rope and I feel like letting it go this time.

thank you for the positive posts/thoughts, I didn't expected for them in
here. means a lot. I know I said that a lot now, I never get enough of
them with the constant dramas I face - bad outbalances the good greatly
now. so a few is a lot for me - thanks again.

[G535]

Regardless of how her life has been, she's been nothing but nice to me. I wish her the best. She can show great compassion and kindness. And honestly, all these smarmy comments shouldn't have even been made. If you see who the thread is by and you don't care for them, then don't even read it. That's what I do. Makes life much easier.

I agree completely.

Gina, some of us really care, just ignore the rest.

[.sarah]

Regardless of how her life has been, she's been nothing but nice to me. I wish her the best. She can show great compassion and kindness. And honestly, all these smarmy comments shouldn't have even been made. If you see who the thread is by and you don't care for them, then don't even read it. That's what I do. Makes life much easier.

What she said!

Gina, I wish you the best. Please don't give up.

[jennielynn1970]

I wasn't actually calling Gina a drama queen.... I was talking about all the other comments. Imagine that. She posted ONE item, and BLAM! it's 3 pages long with all other kinds of comments.

[Queen of Poop]

Gina, life has not been kind to you. You have faced and continue to face horrendous challenges that would send a lesser person completely over the edge. You are strong and you continue to carry on because of that strength. I am sending you positive thoughts and vibrations to help you. You deserve good things from life and I pray that they come sooner than later. Please hang on and get thru this. Give Crayola a big hug, that will make things seem a little less dismal. I posted some photos of Sasha under general, take a look, I guarantee they will make you smile.

This post is to support Gina, not tear each other or Gina down. That seems to have been forgotten. This makes me very sad. I expected better from my fellow pet lovers. Just one Canadian's opinion. If that makes you hate me so be it.