Hello, Note for Everyone ..

[Husky_mom]

I´m sorry for what you have been going through.....but you know I´m still here to lend you shoulder........ no matter if I get a PM response or not..... I don´t live by PM´s...... nor should I expect one knowing you probably are waaaay busy with much more important things (your health).....

thank you and thank those that have been udpating us on your status, if you keep your life secretly fine, it´s your life afterall..... if you wanna share fine too........

if you feel like you shouldn´t say anything cause you can say anything nice, don´t mention that, just don´t reply......(not taking this on you moosmom, but I´ve noticed it lately amongst a few)

saying that is just as well as saying something NOT nice, complaining about the never ending drama.... what does that affect anyone, if it were your own drama you wouldn´t want anyone telling you things and complaining of what YOU are going through...... we each have our own battles and if you can´t support the troops then don´t fire against those that have one, weather you believe it or not....... it´s their issue and whatever anyone believes the person having it needs support, physical, emotional, etc.... and if you can´t be kind enough to give it, what is this world going to be...... share your kindness to the world and to the people that need them....

as my mother also said: "don´t do to others what you wouldn´t want them to do to you"....... put yourself in her shoes...... just for a sec.......

I´ve been here for a while and I´ve witnessed a few problems she´s had and nonetheless I´m still here to share my friendship.....

if anyone is tired of doing so, then just don´t post and keep it to yourselves, I wouldn´t want anyone telling me "here comes her again" just when I need you the most.......if that happened I wouldn´t feel comfortable posting here as I would know it would be less helpful to do so and will hurt me more in trying to reach out for help.......

I´m not taking this against anyone, if you feel like it, it´s not, just a general idea of what I see.... and my own PERSONAL opinion on the matter, and this could apply to anyone cases, not just Gina........

[Queen of Poop]

I´m sorry for what you have been going through.....but you know I´m still here to lend you shoulder........ no matter if I get a PM response or not..... I don´t live by PM´s...... nor should I expect one knowing you probably are waaaay busy with much more important things (your health).....

thank you and thank those that have been udpating us on your status, if you keep your life secretly fine, it´s your life afterall..... if you wanna share fine too........

if you feel like you shouldn´t say anything cause you can say anything nice, don´t mention that, just don´t reply......(not taking this on you moosmom, but I´ve noticed it lately amongst a few)

saying that is just as well as saying something NOT nice, complaining about the never ending drama.... what does that affect anyone, if it were your own drama you wouldn´t want anyone telling you things and complaining of what YOU are going through...... we each have our own battles and if you can´t support the troops then don´t fire against those that have one, weather you believe it or not....... it´s their issue and whatever anyone believes the person having it needs support, physical, emotional, etc.... and if you can´t be kind enough to give it, what is this world going to be...... share your kindness to the world and to the people that need them....

as my mother also said: "don´t do to others what you wouldn´t want them to do to you"....... put yourself in her shoes...... just for a sec.......

I´ve been here for a while and I´ve witnessed a few problems she´s had and nonetheless I´m still here to share my friendship.....

if anyone is tired of doing so, then just don´t post and keep it to yourselves, I wouldn´t want anyone telling me "here comes her again" just when I need you the most.......if that happened I wouldn´t feel comfortable posting here as I would know it would be less helpful to do so and will hurt me more in trying to reach out for help.......

I´m not taking this against anyone, if you feel like it, it´s not, just a general idea of what I see.... and my own PERSONAL opinion on the matter, and this could apply to anyone cases, not just Gina........

Well said!!

[lizbud]

Husky Mom, I understand what you are saying, but I guess we don't share
the same idea about what constitutes a friendship. To me, a real friendship
is only possible when there is trust & respect between people.

[Alysser]

Changed my views on this again.

Gina, I wish you alot of luck and hope one day you find peace in your life instead of going through all this turmoil. Most here REALLY do worry about you, and I just hope for the best.

[shais_mom]

Husky Mom, I understand what you are saying, but I guess we don't share
the same idea about what constitutes a friendship. To me, a real friendship
is only possible when there is trust & respect between people.

well said!

[BC_MoM]

Is there actually need for the sarcasm and witty comments in here?

Moosmom: Your Mom obviously taught you the wrong lesson. The whole saying means say NOTHING. Keep your trap shut and don't say a word. No need to make a single punctuation mark in here if it's going to be with that kind of attitude. How old are you?

Honestly, no one needs to reply at all if you're going to be rude or a smarty.

Back on topic.... I'm sorry life still isn't straightened out, Gina. My prayers are with you!

[Catsnclay]

Moosmom: Your Mom obviously taught you the wrong lesson. The whole saying means say NOTHING. Keep your trap shut and don't say a word. No need to make a single punctuation mark in here if it's going to be with that kind of attitude. How old are you?

Um......I am not trying to be scarscastic here, but Moosmom WAS taught correctly, and she DIDN'T say a word........just like many of us here.

Quite frankly I was taught the same lesson, and even though we ALL want to say something, we all know better.

And FYI, she is old enough to know.

[shais_mom]

I am disgusted with PT right now.Is there actually need for the sarcasm and witty comments in here?

Moosmom: Your Mom obviously taught you the wrong lesson. The whole saying means say NOTHING. Keep your trap shut and don't say a word. No need to make a single punctuation mark in here if it's going to be with that kind of attitude. How old are you?

Honestly, no one needs to reply at all if you're going to be rude or a smarty.

Back on topic.... I'm sorry life still isn't straightened out, Gina. My prayers are with you!

ya know - its the only way some of us have to deal with this craziness. I'm glad you can be her friend.

[shais_mom]

I am disgusted with PT right now.Is there actually need for the sarcasm and witty comments in here?

Moosmom: Your Mom obviously taught you the wrong lesson. The whole saying means say NOTHING. Keep your trap shut and don't say a word. No need to make a single punctuation mark in here if it's going to be with that kind of attitude. How old are you?

Honestly, no one needs to reply at all if you're going to be rude or a smarty.

Back on topic.... I'm sorry life still isn't straightened out, Gina. My prayers are with you!

ya know - its the only way some of us have to deal with this craziness. I'm glad you can be her friend.
and while I wish Gina the good thoughts, my efforts are going to go where needed. http://PetoftheDay.com/talk/showthre...5&goto=newpost

and honestly BC-MOM - for all intents and purposes what you are doing is the exact same thing - you just have different targets.

[dukedogsmom]

Regardless of how her life has been, she's been nothing but nice to me. I wish her the best. She can show great compassion and kindness. And honestly, all these smarmy comments shouldn't have even been made. If you see who the thread is by and you don't care for them, then don't even read it. That's what I do. Makes life much easier.