Hello, Note for Everyone ..

[shais_mom]

That clearer?

Well, I'm not confused nor am I the least bit surprized. As my mother always taught me, if you don't have anything NICE to say, don't. So I won't!!

what she said.

[slleipnir]

I'm still confused about thing but it's none of my business. Goodluck Gina with whatever. I hope things get better (it sounds like things aren't great??)

[Husky_mom]

I´m sorry for what you have been going through.....but you know I´m still here to lend you shoulder........ no matter if I get a PM response or not..... I don´t live by PM´s...... nor should I expect one knowing you probably are waaaay busy with much more important things (your health).....

thank you and thank those that have been udpating us on your status, if you keep your life secretly fine, it´s your life afterall..... if you wanna share fine too........

if you feel like you shouldn´t say anything cause you can say anything nice, don´t mention that, just don´t reply......(not taking this on you moosmom, but I´ve noticed it lately amongst a few)

saying that is just as well as saying something NOT nice, complaining about the never ending drama.... what does that affect anyone, if it were your own drama you wouldn´t want anyone telling you things and complaining of what YOU are going through...... we each have our own battles and if you can´t support the troops then don´t fire against those that have one, weather you believe it or not....... it´s their issue and whatever anyone believes the person having it needs support, physical, emotional, etc.... and if you can´t be kind enough to give it, what is this world going to be...... share your kindness to the world and to the people that need them....

as my mother also said: "don´t do to others what you wouldn´t want them to do to you"....... put yourself in her shoes...... just for a sec.......

I´ve been here for a while and I´ve witnessed a few problems she´s had and nonetheless I´m still here to share my friendship.....

if anyone is tired of doing so, then just don´t post and keep it to yourselves, I wouldn´t want anyone telling me "here comes her again" just when I need you the most.......if that happened I wouldn´t feel comfortable posting here as I would know it would be less helpful to do so and will hurt me more in trying to reach out for help.......

I´m not taking this against anyone, if you feel like it, it´s not, just a general idea of what I see.... and my own PERSONAL opinion on the matter, and this could apply to anyone cases, not just Gina........

[Queen of Poop]

I´m sorry for what you have been going through.....but you know I´m still here to lend you shoulder........ no matter if I get a PM response or not..... I don´t live by PM´s...... nor should I expect one knowing you probably are waaaay busy with much more important things (your health).....

thank you and thank those that have been udpating us on your status, if you keep your life secretly fine, it´s your life afterall..... if you wanna share fine too........

if you feel like you shouldn´t say anything cause you can say anything nice, don´t mention that, just don´t reply......(not taking this on you moosmom, but I´ve noticed it lately amongst a few)

saying that is just as well as saying something NOT nice, complaining about the never ending drama.... what does that affect anyone, if it were your own drama you wouldn´t want anyone telling you things and complaining of what YOU are going through...... we each have our own battles and if you can´t support the troops then don´t fire against those that have one, weather you believe it or not....... it´s their issue and whatever anyone believes the person having it needs support, physical, emotional, etc.... and if you can´t be kind enough to give it, what is this world going to be...... share your kindness to the world and to the people that need them....

as my mother also said: "don´t do to others what you wouldn´t want them to do to you"....... put yourself in her shoes...... just for a sec.......

I´ve been here for a while and I´ve witnessed a few problems she´s had and nonetheless I´m still here to share my friendship.....

if anyone is tired of doing so, then just don´t post and keep it to yourselves, I wouldn´t want anyone telling me "here comes her again" just when I need you the most.......if that happened I wouldn´t feel comfortable posting here as I would know it would be less helpful to do so and will hurt me more in trying to reach out for help.......

I´m not taking this against anyone, if you feel like it, it´s not, just a general idea of what I see.... and my own PERSONAL opinion on the matter, and this could apply to anyone cases, not just Gina........

Well said!!

[lizbud]

Husky Mom, I understand what you are saying, but I guess we don't share
the same idea about what constitutes a friendship. To me, a real friendship
is only possible when there is trust & respect between people.

[Alysser]

Changed my views on this again.

Gina, I wish you alot of luck and hope one day you find peace in your life instead of going through all this turmoil. Most here REALLY do worry about you, and I just hope for the best.

[shais_mom]

Husky Mom, I understand what you are saying, but I guess we don't share
the same idea about what constitutes a friendship. To me, a real friendship
is only possible when there is trust & respect between people.

well said!

[BC_MoM]

Is there actually need for the sarcasm and witty comments in here?

Moosmom: Your Mom obviously taught you the wrong lesson. The whole saying means say NOTHING. Keep your trap shut and don't say a word. No need to make a single punctuation mark in here if it's going to be with that kind of attitude. How old are you?

Honestly, no one needs to reply at all if you're going to be rude or a smarty.

Back on topic.... I'm sorry life still isn't straightened out, Gina. My prayers are with you!

[Kfamr]

Gina, I too am rather confused by the conflicting comments in your posts, however, I truly hope you find happiness SOMEWHERE. You have received an IMMENSE amount of support and care from just about everyone here and I truly hope you appreciate that.

I hope you don't view me as a bad person because I don't reply to all of your threads, but we've all got issues in life too, so I am not always able to reply to yours.

[BC_MoM]

shais_mom

I am not accusing you of picking on my "friend". You ARE all being rude, and there is no need for it. If you can't stand the "drama", don't even open any of Gina's threads anymore. Simple, right? Or put her on your ignore list.

I am not saying Gina is my friend, and I am not saying that she isn't. I am simply sticking up for someone that is being "picked on" as you say.

So, keep it simple stupid: put Gina on your ignore list.

[shais_mom]

shais_mom

I am not accusing you of picking on my "friend". You ARE all being rude, and there is no need for it. If you can't stand the "drama", don't even open any of Gina's threads anymore. Simple, right? Or put her on your ignore list.

I am not saying Gina is my friend, and I am not saying that she isn't. I am simply sticking up for someone that is being "picked on" as you say.

So, keep it simple stupid: put Gina on your ignore list.

you have some nerve don't you??
real mature...
real mature...
I replied to your PM -
and you make a production - drama hogging post here - now whose being rude??
and you call me stupid? whether or not Gina's on my ignore list is my business but I can tell you YOU are again!

[BC_MoM]

you have some nerve don't you??
real mature...
real mature...
I replied to your PM -
and you make a production - drama hogging post here - now whose being rude??
and you call me stupid? whether or not Gina's on my ignore list is my business but I can tell you YOU are again!

I'm sorry. But my mother taught me that saying..

Anyway. I'm done with this - there is no point in wasting my breath in situations like these.

[shais_mom]

now THAT I'll agree on - you can believe what YOU want and I'll believe what I want. either that - our breath is getting wasted b/c we both "know" we are right.

[Hellow]

EVERYONE JUST KNOCK IT OFF!!! I swear...

[shais_mom]

EVERYONE JUST KNOCK IT OFF!!! I swear...

you know everytime you think you are making it better by doing that -
you are just getting everyone all riled up again so follow your own advice, kiddo.