thank you everybody! i will try and answer most of the questions. no she isn't fixed yet. the vet said to wait until she is 6 mo. when we first got her i honestly did not know that you can't play with cats with your hands. i have had kittens/cats before and they didn't do this. but in our defense, she has done this since she was 6 weeks old. we got her from the vet and as far as i know she was only in a cage with her siblings. i use a water bottle and tell her noooooo. she kinda looks at me now when i tell her nooo, like maybe it is sinking in. i tell her "no biting". my fiance is the culprit on this though. i occasionally catch him roughing with her. and his comeback is that his other cats didn't misbehave because he did that.