Lut, as I read your comment about not being able to sit, I just started thinking that you and hubby need to find a resort where it is warm and you can "sit" in a nice swimming pool and drink fruity drinks and there would be no pressure on your spine! I've seen pictures of those places in Mexico, but I have never been.

Do you have access to anywhere there is a warm swimming pool or hot tub so that you could move around comfortably? I wish you could find some place to get comfortable and enjoy yourself!

Logan