ok, the only reason I feel I should contribute is cause I have deleted posts and felt the wrath of some people as a result.....

I did notice that Catty1 deleted her posts. I really hope this thread doesn't focus on that. I also think Catty1 is being put on the defensive side for crossing the internet / real world line to do some research on solutions to roxyluvsme13's problem.

I think perhaps her actions were misunderstood. I think her response to the criticism about "rehoming" the pets further aggravated people. I think asking if english was a first language might have offended some people. Then it seems like she tried to make amends but not everyone was ready to accept.

Pre-emptive Plea:
I think it would be a mistake to let this thread focus on Catty1 and her deleted posts. Maybe its time for this thread to end? I think we've all agreed that generosity can be taken advantage of and caution should always be used. Also, just cause you donate money doesn't mean you have any say in how the recepient's other finances are handled.