I don't know the person in this thread, but have just recently learned, you cannot just 'give' someone money with the thinking that they will spend it either the way they say or the way that YOU think they should spend it.

When you give someone money/donation - in any amount, then be prepared for them to spend it on whatever THEY see fit.


My lesson was learned the hard way, so therefore I now do not give money to any PERSON, only to organizations, and even they use it as they please.