I Have the upper hand on Chad for once!! OMG! SQUEEEEEEEEELLL!!!!

[jackie]

I don't see the point wasting so much of your energy trying to "destroy" someones life.

[Catty1]

This post might not make much sence to people who do not know the whole story. So please ask questions before assuming

Jackie, could you rephrase that as a question? You didn't see all the other threads - or if you did, you didn't post.

Click on King2005's name, click on Public Profile, then click on "Find all Posts Started By", and watch for the thread that ends in "I'm homeless!"

Or, as she requested, please ask questions.

[jackie]

I have read the other threads, and I do see where her anger is coming from.

As I said, I don't see the point wasting so much energy in someone she hates. It sounds as though he isn't worth the time of day.

Why should I rephrase that as a question? It is my opinion, and I stand by it.

[K9soul]

I think the question to ask yourself is if what you do for "revenge" puts you down on his level or not, and if you feel okay with that within yourself. Whether it does or not is only something you can determine for yourself. Good luck with that.

[Vela]

Afraid I have to agree here, you trying to get him back and ruin his life makes you no better than him. You would be best off if you just concentrated on getting your things back and move on with your life, but do whatever you feel is best for you; however, whatever you do won't change what he's done, and then it just brings you down to the same "creep" level he is.

[shais_mom]

I have read the other threads, and I do see where her anger is coming from.

As I said, I don't see the point wasting so much energy in someone she hates. It sounds as though he isn't worth the time of day.

Why should I rephrase that as a question? It is my opinion, and I stand by it.

well stated.
And I agree - I understand HE tried to ruin your life but I don't understand the glee that you are getting for trying to do it to him too.

[Karen]

I agree with the others. I think that if you take the "higher road," and just ignore him, instead of bringing yourself down to his level and doing him harm, you will feel better about yourself in the long run.

Chalk it up to experience nw that it si over, and let the anger fade away. You'll feel better!

[Alysser]

I really do get why you are angry, you have every right to be. But like you said "Karma always has a way of coming back" and ruining Chad's life will only make it come back to bite you. I really think, once you get your stuff back, just leave it be. AND NEVER associate with him again.

[critter crazy]

I have to agree with everyone else. I dont realy get any of this anyways. Just let it be.