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    I'm honestly sorry to hear this - you don't need this right now in your stage of pregnancy. Your going to be having a lot on your plate in the next few months- please don't "yell" @ me for saying this but have you thought of rehoming one of them? Or separating them?
    This is what happens (so I've heard) when you have 3 females in a household. Which one is dominant? And does the other one want to be 'queen'?
    I know you don't believe in disposable pets and neither do I. I'm absolutely against it. BUT your first priority in the next few months is your new son. And if something would happen to him if the dogs get into it - you would never forgive yourself or the dogs. I'm not implying that the dogs or the baby are 'more important' but BOTH are 'helpless' and both of them need YOU to do what's right for them.
    I wish you LUCK from the bottom of my heart.
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    Hmmmmmm, perhaps adding a male dog will stop the fighting?


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    shais_mom, our living situation is a bit complicated right now.. My boyfriend (Ebony, Daisy, and Tikeya) and I are living with my parents, and their Two dogs (Baby, and Oscar). I have honestly thought that we may have to rehome one of our dogs.. But we cannot bring our selves to do it. I could never give up Tikeya, and my boyfriend would never give up Daisy or Ebony.. Its just really hard. I do think that Daisy may pose a problem with a new baby in the future because she is so fearful, but there has to be another option rather then to rehome her. She is so young *3 years*. And I figure she would be to fearful to rehome anyways, she would never trust anyone. We dont know anyone who wants her, because everyone we know is affraid of her.

    Having four large breed female dogs in one house, is really hard to deal with. The only one female that doesnt want to be alpha is Ebony. Tikeya, Daisy, and Baby all want to be Dominant. Baby and Tikeya have had some really bad, bloody battles in the past over being alpha.. And niether of them want to give up. Now Daisy is deciding she wants to be alpha too.. so now we have three females who are going at it... I'm so frusterated.

    Reggie: There is one male dog in the house already, his name is Oscar hes my moms little Shih-Tzu.
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    How old is Daisy? pit bulls usually don't mature until they are 2 years of age dog aggressive wise. sometimes when they mature they don't get along with other dogs and your mom yelling probably added fuel to the fire and your brother throwing the shoe probably didn't help either. do you have a crate to put Daisy in while you're not able to watch her? I am sorry this happened.. but are any of the dogs on NILIF and YOU need to show them that you are the alpha and not any of them. you have to be top dog in your house and I would start NILIF.
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    Quote Originally Posted by tikeyas_mom
    shais_mom, our living situation is a bit complicated right now.. My boyfriend (Ebony, Daisy, and Tikeya) and I are living with my parents, and their Two dogs (Baby, and Oscar). I have honestly thought that we may have to rehome one of our dogs.. But we cannot bring our selves to do it. I could never give up Tikeya, and my boyfriend would never give up Daisy or Ebony.. Its just really hard. I do think that Daisy may pose a problem with a new baby in the future because she is so fearful, but there has to be another option rather then to rehome her. She is so young *3 years*. And I figure she would be to fearful to rehome anyways, she would never trust anyone. We dont know anyone who wants her, because everyone we know is affraid of her.

    Having four large breed female dogs in one house, is really hard to deal with. The only one female that doesnt want to be alpha is Ebony. Tikeya, Daisy, and Baby all want to be Dominant. Baby and Tikeya have had some really bad, bloody battles in the past over being alpha.. And niether of them want to give up. Now Daisy is deciding she wants to be alpha too.. so now we have three females who are going at it... I'm so frusterated.

    Reggie: There is one male dog in the house already, his name is Oscar hes my moms little Shih-Tzu.
    thank you for replying to me and not thinking that I'm just trying to be a bad guy altho in my email instant notification I did see the symbol which upset me b/c I didn't intend to make you mad at all. Rehoming one of my animals would be like cutting an arm or leg off - I couldn't imagine - so I did not suggest it lightly...
    you DO have a lot on your plate right now -
    I didn't realize there were so many dogs in the mix - adding a male to the mix would just make things worse.
    There's a person in market place I think that is a animal psychologist.
    http://petoftheday.com/talk/showthread.php?t=130834 send them a PM -
    it can't hurt.
    and again I say GOOD LUCK.
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    tikeyas mom - less expensive than a trainer. Nancy Efrusy - she is a pet psychic that has a lot of credibility on PT. efrusy (the At symbol) yahoo(dot)com

    She should be back from holidays any time now. Her rates per animal are goo, and she is flexible. She will read first and take payment later.

    Just email her a pic of the animal; she is great at getting a sense as to what is going on in their minds, and sometimes the pet even has a suggestion as to what would make things better for them.

    Maybe crate someone for now?
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    Quote Originally Posted by shais_mom
    thank you for replying to me and not thinking that I'm just trying to be a bad guy altho in my email instant notification I did see the symbol which upset me b/c I didn't intend to make you mad at all. Rehoming one of my animals would be like cutting an arm or leg off - I couldn't imagine - so I did not suggest it lightly...
    you DO have a lot on your plate right now -
    I didn't realize there were so many dogs in the mix - adding a male to the mix would just make things worse.
    There's a person in market place I think that is a animal psychologist.
    http://petoftheday.com/talk/showthread.php?t=130834 send them a PM -
    it can't hurt.
    and again I say GOOD LUCK.
    No, you did not make me mad at all, we have honestly been thinking of all of our options. Your right adding another dog to the mix would most definatley make things alot worse, I would imagine. We dont need 6 dogs in the house anyways, as much as I would love to have a puppy . Thansk for the URL link, I'll check it out.

    Catty1, I mean no disrespect, but I honestly dont really believe in the powers of pet psychics.

    luvofallhorses, Daisy is three years old, so she is starting to mature.. I can really see it in her behavior, she isnt acting as much like a pup as she once was.. she is alot calmer lately, less mischievous.
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    I know its so hard when one dog attacks another. We've had multiple instances where Zeke (we assume he gets jealous..) attacks Bunny out of the blue.. like she's walking across the living room and he's laying down. The next minute he has her pinned against the wall and there are little tufts of B hair on the carpet.. And He's also attacked Eli a couple times. Probably within a month or so that we got Eli.

    He never does any major damage.. Eli now has three puncture scars on his right cheek but other than that.. not a big deal. Im not too sure what Zeke's problem is.. or your dog(s) for that matter. I'd just watch them more closely.. We watch Zeke like a hawk.. he does tend to give of a low warning growl before anything else.. so we usually catch it then.

    One observation though.. Daisy could have attacked Baby because she saw Baby as weaker than her because she is confined by a muzzle. So Daisy thought that she could gain dominance, etc while Baby was 'weaker'.

    Maybe 5 dogs is just too many with your living situation and the certain dogs you have.. I vaguely remember in the last Attack post that you had mentioned you'd be moving out sometime.. And that will definitely help end all of this stress. Maybe you could separate the dogs by baby gates or something.. Not sure what kind of house you are in.. but maybe one group upstairs, and one group downstairs.. Something like that so they wouldn't all be together, at least until they can get along.

    I too agree that adding another dog would only worsen the situation.. why add a new dog to a group of unstable dogs.. that'd just create more chaos and problems. And I'll never resort to telling you to get rid of one of them.. It's like giving up a child.

    Might just have to invest in multiple muzzles for a while.. =) I see an order for 4 muzzles in your future..
    Im sorry that youre in this situation.. and I feel your frustration!

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    Have you read the books by Jan Fennell? She has a great understanding of dogs and it might help you to follow the advice she has in her books. Mostly it's about how you make small changes in your daily routine which make it obvious to your dogs that you are the alpha and not one of them.

    It might be worth a try.. But obviously.. I still think a consulting a behaviorist is even better.

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