It was mentioned in the first post explaining the situation that you rarely get to see each other in person.


It appears that he doesnt feel this is a serious relationship either when you are together. Making you feel like a "guest" in his house speaks volumes that this guy is NOT on the same wave length as you in considering the relationship "boyfriend/girlfriend" and/or committed relationship to date exclusively.

The great communication via IM is more like best friends which is ok IF that's what you want from him but I sense that's not the case.

My advise, If someone nice wants to take you out, I'd go for it.
Waiting for this guy to commit isnt going to happen.