Bon gets read by Nancy (Update #25)

[krazyaboutkatz]

Thanks for sharing Nancy's reading of Bon with us. I've had her do some general readings on all 6 of my cats and also on my RB Pepper. She's such an amazing woman and has really helped me to understand my cats a lot better. I hope that things improve with Bon and I'm glad to hear that Angus is still around and that he helps to comfort Bon.

[Alysser]

I am seriously stunned after reading that. I had read about Angus in past threads, and that is amazing to me how she knew about him. I can't believe it. I really hope this has helped you with Poor Bon. I hope this can help him feel more comfortable with his family.

[lizbud]

Amazing reading there. Anna, I could really relate when you said about
Bon, "I HATE that he will never be that bold and confident dog." I feel the
same way about Smokey. I hate it for Smokey's sake, but also because
it was what I was used to with Buddy. Having Nancy read Smokey did give
me a lot to think about & a way to remember the differences that can a
big part of who each animal is. (Know what I mean?)

[cyber-sibes]

Interesting reading, Anna. Poor Bon, I felt so bad for him when she said he's a small dog in a big body. Just his size alone makes him a formidable force to others, especially when he does go after other dogs. I would never had imagined that it was out of being afraid of them! Now that you know more about his issues, you can work on specific things. Hopefully he'll feel more understood and his confidence level will go up.
As for Ms. Roxey and Mark...it doesn't take a psychic to see that she's Daddy's girl! ( joke) She's a very smart & perceptive girl, maybe if you talk to her about it, she'll mellow out a bit towards him. (((hugs))) to all your fluffies.

That is so awesome that Angus checked in with her too! Gives me goosebumps!

[CathyBogart]

What an amazing reading! Star is one of those dogs who will never be bold and confident, it makes me a little sad but we adjusted for her. WOW on Angus popping in, I'm glad he's there to look after your new big buddy.

[captain]

That is simply amazing Anna! Thanks so much for pointing me to this thread.

You know how much I loved Angus (and of course, how much YOU loved Angus), so that gave me goosebumps. I am glad that Angus is watching over Bon and the family.
I truly think Bon is just a different dog ..... shy, retiring, abit skitish ...... nothing at ALL like YOU Doesn't every family need someone abit different? :-)

{{{{{hugs}}}}}}
Michelle

[K9karen]

Thanks for the PM on this, Anna, as I almost went to bed without checking in!! I love you girl.

Nancy is astounding! She told me she rarely gets interrupted by people, but my nana came in and wouldn't go away! My nana always comes in when I have my reading done too! Nancy had to call me the next day because nana wouldn't budge!

So...it's wonderful that Angus showed up unannounced! I've known you forever so I know that meant everything to you. Good 'ole Angus! I'm trying to think of more questions for you. Maybe you should ask her, like Phred said, what she thinks Bon would like. That's a great idea. But you know, even though you've had him as a puppy, IMO, dogs,(animals) like people, are born with different "wirings". That's why everyone/every critter is so different. It's just how Bon is. When Mz Logan gets intent with something, she doesn't hear or see me either. I know you encase Bon with love, hugs and kisses. The big galoot sounds a lot like me at times.

Nancy awed me when she also fell in love with Cody. He was the perfect dog (huh?) And the "Overseer at the Bridge". I'll be he and Angus are great pals.

[tikeyas_mom]

Amazing reading there. Anna, I could really relate when you said about
Bon, "I HATE that he will never be that bold and confident dog." I feel the
same way about Smokey. I hate it for Smokey's sake, but also because
it was what I was used to with Buddy. Having Nancy read Smokey did give
me a lot to think about & a way to remember the differences that can a
big part of who each animal is. (Know what I mean?)

I can also really relate to that statement, Daisy has ZERO confidence. Like not an ounce of it.. It really concerns me.. I never imagined Bon would be a fearful dog, hes so large and proud looking in all his pics, I wonder why?.. Maybe his parents or one of them was the same way? It may have been passed down to Bon through his Genetics?

[Tollers-n-Dobes]

That's an amazing reading. I can't believe Angus showed up and she was able to tell you something about him too. Hopefully Bon will start feeling more comfortable soon, and understand how much he is loved!

I know how you're feeling with all of the fear stuff. Morgan is like that. The only time she ever has even an ounce of confidence is when Winston is around, otherwise, forget it.

[anna_66]

I emailed her a few questions...
When you were saying you think he doesn't trust me 100% now, could it possibly be because I put him in his kennel to eat instead of letting him outside with the girls (I feed raw). If so, could you convey to him or let me know how to tell him I don't do it because I don't trust him, I do it because I want everyone to be safe. Not only for us but for him as well.
And does he feel any better since we talked Sunday? And does he feel my husband acts any differently now? (he is really trying to be more patient and understanding)
And then just a couple of questions in general...
Why does he insist on giving his paw when we consistently tell him no
Is there anything he would like to do, anything that makes him happy
Does he like to be groomed
He's always slept with me in the morning when my husband has went to work, since the bite he hasn't...why?

She called me yesterday afternoon and we spoke...
As far as the feeding, it's got nothing to do with that at all. It's just he FEELS I don't trust him. Just a feeling, not a physical action.
Feels worry and distrust from me since the bite.
I was his anchor in life. Need to get that feeling back.

No difference since our talk, still very sad.
Issue with Mark is not a big deal, has just accepted him the way he is.
The paw, saw this right away. It's a reassurance compulsion, like a ritual or routine. It's reinforcement (do you love me, tell me you love me).
Nothing in particular he would like to do, likes to be home, home is comfort .
I could take him for walks just him and I but really doesn't want to go any where away from home.
Didn't get anything from the grooming question, just feels nails going down his back, he likes that.
The bed question, he feels on the outside now. Like I'm not comfortable with him (one good thing...he did come and sleep with me this morning)

I did order some essences from Green Hope Farm's Animal Wellness Collection
I picked out the ones I thought he would need (Anxiety, Caretaker, Neediness) and when I talked to them they agreed with those and added one more-Golden Armor (I couldn't find where it was on their site).
She said hopefully these will help him feel more comfortable and have less anxiety and worry. She didn't see him just feeling better on his own-without some help.
So I'm hoping that between the essence and my working with him he will start to feel better soon.

If you have time, could you say a little prayer for the both of us? thanx (and thanks for listening)

[finn's mom]

Wow, what an awesome reading! that is incredible that she saw so much about angus, too. Poor Bon, he's just insecure. At least you know now, and it's something you can work with, instead of fighting to change it. I hope he is able to be more peaceful as a result of the readings.

[cyber-sibes]

Poor Bon. I hope the flower essences help. Nancy is truly amazing. She helped us so much with Sherman's passing. I'm glad your big boy slept with you again this morning- I also noticed a change in Sherman immediately after getting off the phone with Nancy She had me get some essences too, the one for Grief & Loneliness for Star, she's having a very, very tough time with this. BTW, I did see the Golden Armor one on a differet site.
You & Bon are in my prayers.

[shais_mom]

I asked Anna if she minded if I posted this in Kylie's update in Cat General and she said 'absolutely' and asked me to post here too.
I had my Kylie read in 2005 b/c she was having black out type seizures. Where her body would go limp (when I picked her up one day during one - poop fell out of her )
She has been doing so well since going to the holistic vet I wanted to know how she was feeling so I emailed Nancy a few weeks ago and she got back with me yesterday. Usually she only emails the update but Kylie's personality was coming in as a dominant male dog and thought she'd call me.
Here goes:
She sent me an email today asking for a pic of Kloe so she knew who to ask Kylie about - then emailed me back and said both times she started 'reading' Kylie she thought she was a dog b/c she has such a dominant personality. Then saw that she's a cat and was like wow - she has the personality of a dominant male dog!!! o-O this from a cat who would wear a crown if I had one that fit her!!! Said she normally doesn't call on follow up readings but Kylie's personality was so dominant that she felt she had to
Keegan started to bark @ the beginning of the conversation and she said - is your dog brown and black? I said no -
she said whoa I'm really getting a brown and black dog -
I said Kloe is brown and black - she said - nope not the tortie -
She said that I have two dominant cats - but Kylie is more dominant that Kloe- they won't ever be best buds and seek each other out to share space with or treats with (or coffee in using human terms) But they do co-exist and understand that the other is here to stay. (this is what I've been hoping for)
Sometimes the lines are crossed and a tussle ensues (that's for sure) but for the most part - they will co-exist -
she mentioned the black and brown dog again - then said it might be a rottweiler or a rott mix.
**insert lightbulb here**
Kylie flashed 7-8 @ her - I told her Kylie is 7 years old.
Kloe seems just a bit younger - I told her Kloe is 3 - she said wow - she really seems a lot older and more mature than that - asked if I was sure she was that age I said yup I got her @ about 6 weeks... she said oh well ok - I said she had a very rough start in life she said that explains it (like an old soul I suppose?)
Both cats have strong 'backbones' and personalities and are dominant. Kloe is very strong (she didn't read her officially) I was afraid if I sent the pic of Kloe - she'd butt in but she said she did not.
Said that both cats are very very smart. I was lucky that they both were so smart...
I really wanted Kylie read to see how's she's feeling b/c I had her read before due to her "seizure" like episodes - she said she feels fine to me - no problems. - I was wondering if she would mention a car ride but didn't (she went to the groomer on Sat and got a lion cut!!)
Mentioned the Black and Brown Rott again - I said - well I had a greyhound that passed away but she was red - nope not her- I have a golden retriever now- nope not her. I said do you remember the dog you read a few weeks ago - Bon - that bit his owner? She said Yes, I said well I am very good friends with her - it might be her rottweiler - before I even got the words out she exclaimed - THAT'S IT!!! THAT is why this dog seems so familiar - this is the same dog!!!!!!! (hello Angus!! ) She said wow - he has a big personality and he wants you to send a message to Anna saying that she isn't able to give Bon what he needs right now but it's ok- b/c that is what Angus is here for - and is going to do.. He is around and watching out for them. She said she hesitates using the term Guardian Angel but that is like what he is...
I told her that a few weeks ago I was visiting Anna (same weekend she did Bon's reading) and we took some pics that had orbs in them, I didn't think much about it until after reading her reading about Bon and Angus coming in and I wondered if that was Angus - she said - sure it was...






taken by Anna




I said - well I wasn't around Angus much but he was an awesome dog - she said I didn't have to be - I never had to even have met him before - but b/c I knew Anna - he was coming thru to me. She said she doesn't share readings with people b/c its confidential she said but I'll tell you that this is the way he came in for Anna and he still wants her to have a message so you need to pass it on - I said - I am I'm writing it down- She said she feels good when this Rottweiler appears - it just gives her a good feeling that he is here.
So I was so stunned I sent Zippy a text that Angus had come thru to me - called her - talked for a bit - than called Anna - I explained that I was having Nancy do a follow up on Kylie and I have a message for YOU!!! She said OH BOY! I said Angus wants me to tell you that you can't give Bon what he needs right now - but its ok b/c that is what Angus is here for - he is here for him - and he will help him and give him what he needs until you are able to...... I was soooooo afraid she would cry - that I would make her cry but she didn't. She said she felt relieved and felt good that Angus was there for Bon. And watching over people she loves.
I explained how the conversation went - we were both wowed -
I'm honored that he came to me to relay the message....

[finn's mom]

That is incredible! Angus is a powerful, gentle, caring force even after his leaving his physical form. Amazing.

[cyber-sibes]

WOW Staci, all I can say is WOW WOW WOW!
Those photos are awesome. It Looks like Angus delivered a much-needed caress to our dear friend Robin, too. That is just so cool. Anna's heart must be more at ease with getting such a beaautiful message from Angus. What a dog. I only got to meet him once at the dog park, right after we moved to Findlay. He was a big handsome guy.