Bon gets read by Nancy (Update #25)

[Ginger's Mom]

Aw, he is just a sensitive boy. It is nice to know what you are dealing with now, and how to handle it. I was actually quite pleased to see that he felt comfortable about Angus, and didn't see him as the dog that he wasn't living up to, but rather as a comforting presence. Alright I must admit that I did chuckle just a little (not that any of this is funny), but is Roxey the "black mask dog?" And does she really not like him? I am pleased to know that my pretty little Huney girl has made him feel welcome.

[ramanth]

Thanks for pointing me towards this. Poor Bon. I can't imagine always being scared. At least you now know how to help him. And that gave me goosebumps to hear that Angus is still there helping. What a good boy.

*HUGS*

[shais_mom]

poor Bon Bon!!
what an interesting reading and how amazing that Angus came thru!!
amazing.
So does that mean that Angus is like Bon's guardian Angel?
Did she say what if anything Bon feels when people come over?
He doesn't act as tho it bothers him, he seems happy we were there.
give that blockhead a big hug from Aunt Staci!

[pitc9]

Nancy is an amazing person! When I read about a reading she's done, I've never heard of anyone not getting a full reading. (She's never just said I don't know...she always finds all answers)

I had goosebumps when she mentioned Angus... Oh Anna... that has to make you feel so happy to know that he's still there (why wouldn't he be )
And to know that Bon loves Huney has to be Very comforting to you as well.

I agree with you Staci, it's not Nancy being harsh that's just the way Bon feels.

[RobiLee]

I'm still disappointed that Bon didn't let Nancy know that he likes it when Aunt Robin comes to visit . Hmmm, and I wonder what he really thinks of Tori. Does he really like her and like to play with her?

Now you know how he is feeling and you can do small things to help make him feel more at ease. I think Bon is a wonderful boy and I love hanging out with him. He is so soft and I love to pet him and just lay on the floor with him. I don't know what it is but for some reason Bon brings me comfort. Maybe because I've known him since he was a puppy, maybe it's his size, I don't know all I know is that when I hang out with him and pet that silky coat it really comforts and relaxes me.

I found the whole thing fascinating and I'm eager to have her read my dogs.

{{{BIG HUGS TO MY SPECIAL BOY}}}

[K9soul]

Very fascinating. It seems to me similar to an insecure person, and how they may view things in a more sensitive manner than others. A lot of how you describe Bon as being so jittery and skittish is how Tommy has always been too. However through the years and gently trying to put him in situations where he is enjoying himself, I think he has definitely improved. I also tried never to force anything. I've used his favorite toys to passively try to get him more comfortable around things and situations that made him more nervous, and it does seem to help distract him from his nervousness. I definitely think Bon could improve with time and patience, but I doubt he'll never be a bold and confident dog. Thanks so much for sharing this Anna.

[shais_mom]

I'm still disappointed that Bon didn't let Nancy know that he likes it when Aunt Robin comes to visit . {{{BIG HUGS TO MY SPECIAL BOY}}}

And Aunt Staci!
I think this might be the push I need to get Kloe and Keegan read - altho a reading of Kloe scares me more than Keegan and Kylie - I think she'll call me everything but a white woman!