Gina needs prayers

[Karen]

Finally, "some" news.

WHO is "Cindy", and where ARE they??

And WHERE did the Cat Disappearance happen ... where were they Taken From?

Have the Police investigated the "misssing person"??
Have the Police been told about all the missing cats??

Be great if ONE person could tell the WHOLE story.

Best as I know, (you've already been told Cindy=Taz_Zoee, who lives in California, in the Bay Area) Gina was camping near Lake Tahoe with Friend A. With her were the new kitty, and Crayola. The rest of her cats were being cared for by Friend B.

When Gina made it back from the camping trip, she went to stay with her Friend B. She left there to babysit for her beloved niece Emily for a few days, and then on Friday she went to Friend B's place, and found a suicidal note, and all her cats and their litter boxes were gone, as was her friend.

Gina did contact the police about the suicide note and her friend, the police are looking for Friend B. As far as I know they have not found her.

Gina is looking in local shelters and anywhere else she can think of in the area for her cats. She has not yet had any success. Hopefully the police will be successful in finding Friend B., and she can divulge where the cats are.

(Edited for clarification of timeline)

[sandragonfly]

just .. wow.

down back to that road because of some people just don't know how to back off.

we have not updated because we haven't found my cats or my friend yet - I had nothing new to post - and cindy was keeping you posted.

staci, what you did was not very right and disrespectful. nobody should deserve any of bash words of yours any way because I wouldn't do that - if you don't have anything nice to say, just don't. horrible or not. I mean, what if this disaster is true?

by the way, I did not ask chocopup to post prayers - because I knew something like this would come up but, she offered and I thought I'd try it one more time. and I am not sure what it has to do with my mental illness - everyone has it and they just deal with it differently as I take this as expected.

it has been always hard for me to ask prayers because it's always something. what did you expected? I never felt it was fair also, because I shouldn't lived like this or to worry my friends all the time. what am I suppose to do? give you out the friend's name who was arrested publically? my auto insurance number? nobody of you had asked me for the information either. or send you pictures of all events I mentioned, even a home without cats and documentations? sorry, for and of my other events you read, this is no win-win. you can either take it or leave it, all I was hoping for the prayers and thoughtful words I can please.

even though life has been treating me so good since at the beginning of this year, except for my friend's death last february, I have never expect all of you to believe this or be supportive at least. now, for how this turned, I definitely don't see why I should post any more updates but will continue to do so via PMs for anyone wants to know and with my roadtrip thread.

again, if you don't believe or don't buy, it's not worthing a time posting in or read this thread - nothing will change or stop me from hoping for the best.

all I can say is, only if you were there.

[Taz_Zoee]

Well, as I've stated before I don't like posting in threads that get ugly. And I can't even believe this one went that way. But since I'm involved, here goes.
I am shaking right now. Just one thing - if you don't believe her then don't read the thread, and especially don't post. If you really need to talk to someone about it PM another member who feels the same.
Everyone has hard times in their lives, some more than others and some people deal with them better than others so they don't seem like "that big of a deal".
Gina is deaf. Can you imagine living in a world of silence?? That alone can be very scary and could definitely cause some mental stress. Having mental disorders does not make a person bad.

This morning we sat here at my computer looking up shelters and I called them to make it easier. But unfortunately most of them are closed, but I did leave messages.
Gina was able to get back into the place (which she doesn't want the location, or city posted - please respect this) this afternoon. The police are looking for the friend, but will not look for the cats. Two of the cats are on meds and the meds are/were at the house. This entire situation is very puzzling and I don't even truly know the WHOLE story.

All that was asked in the original post is prayers that Gina finds her cats safe. If you can't do that.....then don't.

I apologize for not posting sooner, but right after Gina left this afternoon I had to run errands and just got back on the computer. MY fault.

All I can do is exactly what I am doing....being there for Gina.

[sandragonfly]

This entire situation is very puzzling and I don't even truly know the WHOLE story.

that is for me too, but they are in touch with me. she and I have never fought since we were little - I just don't understand this either.

With all due respect, she needs the name of a good therapist.

because ... ? to tell me how I should deal with this differently or any less than who I am and give up my cats because 11 is "too much" afterall I am upset over this? no way and never.

plus, how does that will help me find my babies? what candace had said, and therapist or not, I am sure I'd appreciate some good vibes alone.

good grief, this thread is making chocopup worried to sick, and now I feel really bad for her. oh right, I'm making this up..

even though nothing in world amazes me, this simply have - the whole thing was uncalled for, although it only makes me stronger.

[Roxyluvsme13]

Curiosity, how do you all know what Gina needs and doesn't need? Are you suddenly magical mind readers?

[Alysser]

I am in a state of shock. This thread has turned into something uncalled for completely.


Tell me, what has led you NOT to believe Gina? Has she ever lied to you? Seriously, enlighten me. Some of these events may not sound believable, but I for one know, I can never judge if a person is lying over the internet unless I have evidence that is good enough. If you were not there, you will simply NEVER know. It's as simple as that. Things like in life happen, we'll have unlucky streaks, unlucky years, months, whatever. There comes a time when you will need prayers, and tell me you'll like someone telling you you need a therapist and you're lying?

The nerve of hijaking someone's thread asking for support and good thoughts with such BS is amazing to me, really.

Gina, know you still have my support and alot of other people's.

[Marigold2]

I hope things work out for everyone. Life can be very strange and people even stranger. PT is such a wonderful place and it is that way because each and everyone of us have made it that way. God bless to all.

[Taz_Zoee]

Gina asked me to let everyone know she appreciates the thoughts and prayers. And she is trying to keep people updated via PM’s instead of posting on this thread any longer. If you have not received a PM from her, please be patient. She has limited signal and will get to them as she can.

It is my understanding and experience that Gina shows her thankfulness and gratitude to fellow PTers through not only her posts but PM's as well.

I am sure most of you can understand why she has decided to not continue to post on this thread.

Thank you.

[moosmom]

I deleted my post about Gina needing a therapist because Karen asked me to. I still stand by my opinion.

because ... ? to tell me how I should deal with this differently or any less than who I am and give up my cats because 11 is "too much" afterall I am upset over this? no way and never.

Nowhere did I say you should give up your cats.

[sandragonfly]

Nowhere did I say you should give up your cats.

because you're a pet talker and only we understand. this is why we pick this place and come here for love, help and prayers. sometimes I'm not so sure.

as in the bible, compared to job the guy, I have only lost three of my cats and I still have my blessings; furkids, friends, car and home and he had nothing.

guys, I am off now, there are some important things than this that needed to be done - I will reply to PMs later, tomorrow likely.

good bye for now and thank you friends.

[Catty1]

How does anyone know that she does or doesn't have a therapist?

I have had several - and that does NOT mean quick cure, or even a cure at all. Nor does medication "cure", and may not work effectively for all people.

I am sure if it was any of our business, she would tell us.

[crow_noir]

Gina, you have hugs and prayers from me.

I can't believe some people had the gaul to start what they did in this thread. (Obviously they've had boring, dull lives. Or were blessed with lives with out tragedy and would never understand.) I tell you... it's put things in perspective... I've been lucky on the other forum i post to that I've never been accused of lying about all the stuff that's happened. As the phrase goes... "If it weren't for bad luck I'd have none at all." That's how it feels sometimes.

I really hope you get some news soon.

(I personally am going to be checking here for updates. PMs irritate me and i only use them sparingly. I much prefer email or IM.)

[CathyBogart]

I haven't responded to this before now, but Gina, you have been in my thoughts and I hope things start to go your way soon. You deserve a break, that's for certain!

[G535]

Thinking of you too Gina and your cats, hope everything works out for all of you.

[Husky_mom]

It may be hard to believe that so much has happened to one person....... but don´t we all??........ I myself have had my share of things, I just don´t post about them all (not that it´s bad) and I sure would love for people to be here for me, not to kick me when I´m down.........if those are my "friends".... why should I need enemies??

some may be skeptical, but whatever you wanna think, Gina needs help and support and if you don´t want/feel like it, let us who DO want give it to her, do, even if the situation is too much to believe (to some)........

and even if her zillion posts were all "tragedies" I will be here to support her and lend a shoulder......... and just place the other cheek if need be.......
If she shares her tragedies, shes vulnerable and needs someone to lean on not someone to stumble her....

there are several people who do post as drama queens just looking for attention, but Gina is not one of them...... might her life seem like "drama"....yes, but take a look at your own........ we each have different "dramas" and we deal with them differently..... I just ask you to not be what you would not like other persons to be with you when you need a lift up.......

Gina, I do have you in my thoughts, and will be here for you always, you can count on me........ I hope everything gets settled and your friend and beloved kitties get found safe and sound.....