Quote Originally Posted by Catty1
Big prayers for you. And for Bear.

Would Andrew look out for Bear?

I realize it is killing you...but I see where your dad is coming from. You gotta be first, just for a while. Focus on you, and you do have good friends to help you.

In a way, I admire your dad - he could see this coming, and it must have hurt and been SO hard for him to not 'warn' you, but I guess he realized you would have to learn for yourself.

Of course, love your animals. But love yourself first - with all the determination you have shown, and strength, you will work wonders getting your stuff together.

HUGS!
Thanks

Andrew is a useless tit I tried to explain to him what they are doing will effect their bankruptcy.. He said well Chad said otherwise... Thats great, but the Agency prob. knows more then Chad don't ya think?? SO Andrew is putting himself into thousands of $$ in debt & there is no hope for him to claim that.. as you cannot create debt like that KNOWINGLY going into a bankruptcy... they did this after they had a few meeting with the bankruptcy agency... *smacks forehead*


Dad wanted me to see what the real world is all about while I'm young & hes still around.. he said its better learning this lesson NOW, then later in life like he did after him & mom divorced. its almost going on 13years now & hes STILL paying for the debt. He'll be 59 in Oct, & said its no life to live to only pay debt... So learning this lesson now, with him around is a healthy lesson... Dad had help from his younger brother when the divorce first happend... Dad no longer does anything with his credit cards & doesn't buy useless junk anymore.. unless its from his savings account.

Dad has always ALWAYS let me get myself into trouble, but was always nearby making sure it didn't get out of control. He would help just enough to get me onto my feet & thats it... Now I'm getting a bigger hand, as well its going to take a lot to get me off my feet.

I am who I am, cause of my dad. Thats why I have so much respect for him. He wants nothing but the best for his kids & refuses to spoil them.. he teaches them with love & wisdom & reality.. nothing is sugar coated, but hes not mean either.