Totally freaking out!! I'm HOMELESS!! Hes trying to steal all my belongings!!

[king2005]

Big prayers for you. And for Bear.

Would Andrew look out for Bear?

I realize it is killing you...but I see where your dad is coming from. You gotta be first, just for a while. Focus on you, and you do have good friends to help you.

In a way, I admire your dad - he could see this coming, and it must have hurt and been SO hard for him to not 'warn' you, but I guess he realized you would have to learn for yourself.

Of course, love your animals. But love yourself first - with all the determination you have shown, and strength, you will work wonders getting your stuff together.

HUGS!

Thanks

Andrew is a useless tit I tried to explain to him what they are doing will effect their bankruptcy.. He said well Chad said otherwise... Thats great, but the Agency prob. knows more then Chad don't ya think?? SO Andrew is putting himself into thousands of $$ in debt & there is no hope for him to claim that.. as you cannot create debt like that KNOWINGLY going into a bankruptcy... they did this after they had a few meeting with the bankruptcy agency... *smacks forehead*


Dad wanted me to see what the real world is all about while I'm young & hes still around.. he said its better learning this lesson NOW, then later in life like he did after him & mom divorced. its almost going on 13years now & hes STILL paying for the debt. He'll be 59 in Oct, & said its no life to live to only pay debt... So learning this lesson now, with him around is a healthy lesson... Dad had help from his younger brother when the divorce first happend... Dad no longer does anything with his credit cards & doesn't buy useless junk anymore.. unless its from his savings account.

Dad has always ALWAYS let me get myself into trouble, but was always nearby making sure it didn't get out of control. He would help just enough to get me onto my feet & thats it... Now I'm getting a bigger hand, as well its going to take a lot to get me off my feet.

I am who I am, cause of my dad. Thats why I have so much respect for him. He wants nothing but the best for his kids & refuses to spoil them.. he teaches them with love & wisdom & reality.. nothing is sugar coated, but hes not mean either.

[Catty1]

What a great dad - kind of like mine!

Your getting things together for yourself would be wonderful for you - and a great Father's Day tribute for him.

You can't worry about Andrew...is he a twit, or just blind? He will find out one day. Prayers for that fellow...

[king2005]

What a great dad - kind of like mine!

Your getting things together for yourself would be wonderful for you - and a great Father's Day tribute for him.

You can't worry about Andrew...is he a twit, or just blind? He will find out one day. Prayers for that fellow...

I bought my dad a 10.00 Wendy's gift card. I'm going to mail it to him with a copy of my bankruptcy papers (he asked for a copy).

So it'll be 2 good things that hes receiving int he mail at once

I know I know, I shouldn't have bought the gift card, but I bought it a few days ago, before WW3 broke out.

[Catty1]

I shouldn't have bought the gift card

Hey - this is for your DAD! Totally allowed!

[shais_mom]

could you tell the place you got Bear from how she is treated?

Just a thought


good luck....

[king2005]

could you tell the place you got Bear from how she is treated?

Just a thought


good luck....

I was thinking of writting them an email, once I'm 100% moved out... But the problem is, if Chad goes ape, he can easily find me as he knows my car & can follow me home... I'm scared what he'll do to my car... no car=no work

[Catty1]

And the police can be called on Chad IF he does that! An arrest might be the only chance of him getting the help he needs. You could always talk to the cops again - and tell them you are contacting the original owner of Bear. That you are worried...

Do you think he would really do that?

But would you be living that close to him that he would find your car?

Can you trade cars with someone for a while?

[sweetpatata6]

Hey - this is for your DAD! Totally allowed!

Agreed-- Hey, sorry if some of my comments earlier sounded rude, after I was reading over the thread I realized that they didn't come out how they ment to come out and I was like about how I sounded, sorry.

And I'm sooo glad to hear the police are on your side about the B&E... I can't believe chad would do that!!!

Your dad sounds like he has a good head on him and is trying to do his best for you to try and get your life back straight...

Praying for you and Bear and for you to get your life restored.