Kim, I hope your husband comes around. Myself I've hit bottom twice in the last four years. First it was finding out that I am diabetic and the second blow was my Atrial Fibrillation. Now I have to take a drug store full of medicines and have my blood drawn twice a week to monitor the Coumadin, to keep myself controlled from those two. Not all guys refuse to take medicines or go to the doctor's office or in my case be in the hospital twice so far this year!